When I joined this site I noticed some things rather quickly, many very good. But one thing on the negative side was how quickly some debates could go from ideological to personal. I've found in myself a desire too often to be right rather than righteous. I'm very grateful that the Spirit, either directly or through another, has reminded me that I am to prefer others before myself. That was the spirit in which I asked the question.Don't have much patience for certain kinds but praying others do.