Finding a Christian spouse

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Lanolin

Lanolin

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shittim said:
Proverbs 25-24-

New King James Version
It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

Looks like she is supposed to move out to her "she shed":unsure::)(y):coffee:
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she sheds are great
but its better to just have your OWN room inside the house rather than the dog kennel lol
 
Lanolin

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If you have a 3 bedroom house, you could share one room, and ALSO each have your own room. Wouldnt that work? Because of snoring right?
 
listenyoumustAll

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shittim said:
Proverbs 25-24-

New King James Version
It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

Looks like she is supposed to move out to her "she shed":unsure::)(y):coffee:
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Lol you wish right ..but that's not what the scripture is saying there is peace /abundance when there is unity in marriage even is a seemly limited situation . a liken to being one with God.
 
Lanolin

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listenyoumustAll said:
Lol you wish right ..but that's not what the scripture is saying there is peace /abundance when there is unity in marriage even is a seemly limited situation . a liken to being one with God.
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hhaha which one is God, the husband or the wife?

Or...you could just have a maid and pay her to do all the housework.
 
HealthAndHappiness

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shittim said:
Or better yet, seek first the Kingdom of God, and ALL these things will be added unto you.
Nibblers can be bottom dwellers, and may not be Christian as they lean on their own understanding and fail to give Him first place.
What is His plan for your life? He wants all of us to find it and walk it out.
best wishes
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You got that right friend!
Some guy thinks he has a mermaiden and next thing you know.....
Mine wasn't nearly this big, but I never liked the big ones.
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Samuel94 said:
28 Male here and I feel you. As the youngest of 4 brothers who are all now married, I feel pressure to find to find that "right christian woman". You've got to remember though as well, that this is quite possibly the hardest generation to find a good spouse, especially a christian spouse. The wants and needs of many have fallen away from God. Social media and all their backwards ideologies have run rampant. I struggle in the UK to even know where to look tbh. But all I can say is focus on the things of God and continual prayer which I'm sure you are doing!
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Oldest of 9 male grandchildren on my mum’s side. Only one not married. Pressure was real for some time. Eventually they gave up on me getting married. 😂
 
I_am_Canadian

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Makamore said:
Does anyone else also feel like as a Christian, finding a spouse is a million times harder than those who are non-Christians? I've made peace with the fact that I can't just marry anyone and that God has to give me the go-ahead before I even entertain the idea of being with someone. The closer I get with God, the more things I add to my list of things that a man needs to have (e.g. a healthy prayer life, knowledge of/belief in the spiritual realm, filled with the Holy Spirit, a desire to worship God every day amongst other things) for me to even consider entering into a relationship and I feel like I might be putting myself in a box by having all these checkboxes. Can anyone relate? I definitely don't wanna settle or end up with the wrong person but I'm worried that I'm being too selective. But it just feels like most Christian men my age (27) that I encounter are lacking in these things/the passion for Jesus.
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Your doing the right thing waiting for the right man. You don't want to end up a single mother because you got involved with the wrong man.
 
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You list admirable qualities you are looking for,but understand this: Some devout Christian men can be lousy husbands,while some less devout men may make wonderful husbands. Simply because he is a Christian is no guarantee. I`ve seen it too many times
 
shittim

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Keeping in mind most who believe they are Christian aren't really:unsure:(y):)
 
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Religion aside,what really matters most is a persons maturity. Whether a man is a Christian or not doesnt mean squat as to how a man treats you. There are many selfish, immature Christian men
 
Rosemaryx

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I pray that the man you meet will love Jesus more than anyone or anything in this life , then you will know he is the one if you are blessed by God for meeting such a person :)...
 
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Dear one, wait for that Christian man of your dreams. The Lord will somehow make it happen. IMG_0024.jpg
 
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Rosemaryx said:
I pray that the man you meet will love Jesus more than anyone or anything in this life , then you will know he is the one if you are blessed by God for meeting such a person :)...
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this is what we are all looking for. Hard to find.:love:
 
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HealthAndHappiness said:
You haven't seen Penfield.
He loved ladies and he would literally make a "B line" and run to the little girls to make friends.... as fast as a Leopard Tortoise can.
See the 3:00 minute mark. That my friend, is a leopard tortoise.
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And? Minya is still cuter >:p
 
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