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Heh...
Right now I'm playing a video game called Blackguards. One of the sidequests reminds me a lot of these "What I want in a spouse" threads.
It involves Telemache and her husband Azulo. Telemache is always complaining about what a wimp Azulo is, so finally she finds a magic ritual to change him into "the perfect man."
Next time you meet Telemache, she's still unhappy. Her perfect man is smothering her with attention. When they are out in public he challenges other guys to a duel if they so much as glance at her. And at night in the bedroom... Well she's exhausted and wishes he would just leave her alone.
Every time these "What I want in a spouse" threads come up, I wonder what we would do if we got what we wanted. Would it be a blessing or a curse?
Right now I'm playing a video game called Blackguards. One of the sidequests reminds me a lot of these "What I want in a spouse" threads.
It involves Telemache and her husband Azulo. Telemache is always complaining about what a wimp Azulo is, so finally she finds a magic ritual to change him into "the perfect man."
Next time you meet Telemache, she's still unhappy. Her perfect man is smothering her with attention. When they are out in public he challenges other guys to a duel if they so much as glance at her. And at night in the bedroom... Well she's exhausted and wishes he would just leave her alone.
Every time these "What I want in a spouse" threads come up, I wonder what we would do if we got what we wanted. Would it be a blessing or a curse?
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People question and say the person they have was not the person they wanted.
but have they ever sat down and thought that it is not always what they want, but it is what God wants?
God has our very best interest at heart, so how can it be so wrong?
I will tell you why people question God, it is worldly desires.
but have they ever sat down and thought that it is not always what they want, but it is what God wants?
God has our very best interest at heart, so how can it be so wrong?
I will tell you why people question God, it is worldly desires.
Really, number 3 constructive criticism and advice???
I have not had a man really ask that of me before, a lot of men cannot handle constructive citicism and advice. They will say I need prayer and support, or a cuddle or someone to listen to me not advice.
Advice on what? The only thing I remember a man actually asking me for advice was when I did proofreading and editing.
Correct spelling, grammar and paragraphing?
I also wrote CVs for people. Both for men and women although I didn't really think of it at the time as giving constructive criticism. It was more encouragement. Because I would write good things about them not keep pointing out their flaws.
Your spouse, if you are to have one, is not allowed to be a girl or a boy. They have to be a grown man or woman. When I see men specifiying virgins or they have to be young Im like you are NOT after a woman you are after a girl, and for women to go after (toy)boys its more like they are looking for a pet. A spouse is not your pet. Treat them like they have a brain. You need to be equal and if that isnt happening you will either be under their thumb or the time or you'll be bossing them around.
I have not had a man really ask that of me before, a lot of men cannot handle constructive citicism and advice. They will say I need prayer and support, or a cuddle or someone to listen to me not advice.
Advice on what? The only thing I remember a man actually asking me for advice was when I did proofreading and editing.
Correct spelling, grammar and paragraphing?
I also wrote CVs for people. Both for men and women although I didn't really think of it at the time as giving constructive criticism. It was more encouragement. Because I would write good things about them not keep pointing out their flaws.
Your spouse, if you are to have one, is not allowed to be a girl or a boy. They have to be a grown man or woman. When I see men specifiying virgins or they have to be young Im like you are NOT after a woman you are after a girl, and for women to go after (toy)boys its more like they are looking for a pet. A spouse is not your pet. Treat them like they have a brain. You need to be equal and if that isnt happening you will either be under their thumb or the time or you'll be bossing them around.
