Sexual Sin?

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Moses_Young said:
So you also believe it is possible to steal from yourself, or to covet your own possessions?

Lust is wanting another man's wife, which is not related to seeing a woman as a whole or in parts. A husband not seeing his wife as a whole might be selfish (debatable also), but it's not lust (she belongs to him already - not another man).
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Are you a Muslim?
 
BillG

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Lifted_by_the_word said:
I'm saying that the water alone doesn't lead to life.A man splilling his seed instead of laying with his wife is a sin.In the spiritual sense he is denying the blood.Scripture says not to deny your wife,or don't deny your husband.
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Is that not OT?
 
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brndvis said:
Growing up, I was told all masturbation was a sin.

Matthew 5:28 says "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart."

To me, this means Porn/Masturbation is a sin.


My question is, is it a sin to masturbate while thinking or looking at your wife? (not at porn)

I mean, when my wife is not willing or able to be intimate with you (For example; time of the month), is it ok?
Am I allowed to lust over my wife?
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Its best to just be a little temperate. Our lives should not be marked by lust so as that we can not go without gratifying the flesh for a few days. Dont get wrong im not coming down on you, im simply answering your question.
 
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Sexual energy and intimacy should be researved for sharing with you wife.
 
Lamar

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Dino246 said:
Onan's sin was not fulfilling his duty to raise up a son for his brother. The "spilling of seed" was merely the method by which he committed his sin.

For a married couple today, there is no such responsibility, and therefore no prohibition.
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Agreed.
People have been doing this forever. It was why Onan did it, was the reason it was recorded.
 
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Here's something somewhat related to the thread.Circumcision is like a sign.It's a parting/unveiling,in the same way it is with your hair.When you part the covering,you are parting/tearing the curtain veil.
 
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Lifted_by_the_word said:
Here's something somewhat related to the thread.Circumcision is like a sign.It's a parting/unveiling,in the same way it is with your hair.When you part the covering,you are parting/tearing the curtain veil.
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Probably had a little to do with the shedding of blood too.
 
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Lifted_by_the_word said:
I'm saying that the water alone doesn't lead to life.A man splilling his seed instead of laying with his wife is a sin.In the spiritual sense he is denying the blood.Scripture says not to deny your wife,or don't deny your husband.
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What nonsense! So what happens when a woman gets through menopause? Does that mean husband & wife cannot enjoy marital pleasures because there is no possibility of creating children? That can actually be a longer period of time when they were creating children.

Are you Catholic? There are many methods of contraception that stop conception. From the pill, condoms, vasectomies, hysterectomies, etc etc. Yet God create man and wife to live one another and have loving sexual relations within the bonds of marriage.

I had 5 children, lost one during my last pregnancy. I love my children, I am blessed to have them. But no one is going to condemn my husband for being sinful, because my womb is closed. Or for the times when I used contraception between children!

Stop acting as the judge for something you are making up!
 
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Ignore works to rid ones self of Pharisees.
 
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Dino246 said:
It is impossible to lust over your own wife, just as it is impossible to steal what already belongs to you.

As long as your wife is aware of and truly accepting of your actions, it's nobody else's business.
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That's absolutely not true. Also, OP, masturbation is a sin, no matter who you're thinking about when you're doing it.
 
Dino246

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flexor said:
That's absolutely not true. Also, OP, masturbation is a sin, no matter who you're thinking about when you're doing it.
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Welcome to CC...

Please quote the verse of passage from Scripture that states that 'masturbation is a sin'.

Good luck with that.
 
HeIsHere

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flexor said:
That's absolutely not true. Also, OP, masturbation is a sin, no matter who you're thinking about when you're doing it.
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That was not good advice really, since using one's imagination in this way tends to make it difficult to live in reality.
 
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Dino246 said:
Welcome to CC...

Please quote the verse of passage from Scripture that states that 'masturbation is a sin'.

Good luck with that.
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Wow, so you're saying you think masturbation isn't a sin? Oh dear...
 
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flexor said:
Wow, so you're saying you think masturbation isn't a sin? Oh dear...
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No that is not what was said . He simply ask youi to post the Scripture supporting your statement.
 
HeIsHere

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Dino246 said:
Welcome to CC...

Please quote the verse of passage from Scripture that states that 'masturbation is a sin'.

Good luck with that.
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Anything that sexually objectifies another person is a sin.
 
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Beckie said:
No that is not what was said . He simply ask youi to post the Scripture supporting your statement.
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It was implied in what he said, and if it wasn't he can clarify it. Seems like he thinks masturbation isn't a sin though.
 
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