you also know the time there were in, not like today, women were not equel, back then, and they had slaves back then, only men were aloud to speak , that was there culture, 2000 years ago, now women are equel, but different, God is a God of order, , husband and wife, both equel, but do different things, working together, as one spirit, the man father provides and loves his family, like the father God, the women is the nurtures, and teaches and comforts like the holy spirit, the man is the head of the house hold, this does not mean his better then she is, men love love you wife, as Jesus loves the church,