know this: when God says, "soon" it means the event will suddenly arrive, not soon in time because God's timing is not of ours. (2nd Peter 3:8). indeed, waiting is 1 of the toughest issues to maste. no one likes waiting. try this: ask & forget!! super tough, i know. bout there's always 1 or 2 things that can solve waiting. every time you think about the waiting, wear a smile, be positive & have a few statements to recite to yourself, in comedy, that heals the pain! " i do not hate the wait, it bears no fate, cuz' i'm walking thru the gate"!