Please clarify what you mean by "Mothers are the number one person who allows this to happen". Allow what to happen?
Unfortunately, the majority of trans-children have developed this mindset from their mothers.
Mothers who are :
1. suffering from coe dependency
2. were abused themselves
3. Angry at the father who is no longer with them or wants them
4. no father is in the Home
Children do not wake up and say I want to be a girl when they are boys. They cannot cognitively come to that understanding because they are immature. FYI, Children say things and don't know what they are saying. Parents, Teachers, and those who are supposed to care for them allow this kind of lie to take root in children, which is also Child Abuse.
In addition, as I said earlier, many people with an Identity crisis were exposed to pornography. Cathy Grace explained Transgender is not about sex, it is about identity and false narratives brought on by something or someone. In her case, it was her mother's abusive relationship that was done by her father.