Christian Men -- Would You Marry a Woman Who's Kissed 50 Different Men?

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Christian Men -- Would You Marry a Woman Who's Kissed 50 Other Men Before You?

  • Yes -- but only if she had once been an unbeliever and had an excuse.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Yes -- her past is forgiven and I'm only concerned with our present and future.

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • Yes -- if she's good-looking enough to overlook her past.

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • Yes -- if God is telling me to marry her, I will obey.

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • Maybe -- it depends on her story.

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • No -- I haven't kissed that many women and wouldn't want a wife who did.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • No -- I've kissed just as many and/or more women, but it's different for a man.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • No -- I want a woman who's only kissed as many people as I have or less.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • No -- I want a woman who hasn't kissed anyone else.

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Other -- I have thoughts I want to post in the thread.

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • Total voters
    7

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#25
Now wait!...
This thread is about kissing folks, not drinking coffee...

Lets not blame the coffee... :unsure::D
As vile as that stuff tastes, I sure am gonna blame it for a lot of things. Nothing that tastes like THAT can be anywhere near good.
 

seoulsearch

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#27
I see we have another voter in the poll -- just wanted to say again, I REALLY appreciate the honest answers and hope the gentlemen will keep them coming!
 

Cameron143

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#28
Just a quick point of clarification:
Does she have 50 brothers?
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#29
I see we have another voter in the poll -- just wanted to say again, I REALLY appreciate the honest answers and hope the gentlemen will keep them coming!
I can't vote because you didn't put MY choice in there!

Well... Someone had to say it. You knew it was inevitable.

MY choice would have been "Where does the line form for this kissing marathon?"
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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#30
I can't vote because you didn't put MY choice in there! Well... Someone had to say it. You knew it was inevitable. MY choice would have been "Where does the line form for this kissing marathon?"
Sly ol' dog... Er, I mean, cat. :cool:
 

CarriePie

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#31
I'd like to comment as a woman, if I may, that I would much prefer to have one man that I can kiss 50 times....and 50 times 50 times 50 times 50...and so on :D

Also, a man's past is his past. What is he like now? Is his heart more focused on the Lord than anyone and anything else? What is the Lord's guidance? I'd personally be more concerned about these questions.


Smoochies ftw!
And coffee too!
:whistle::coffee:
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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#32
Just a quick point of clarification:
Does she have 50 brothers?

Jiminy Crickets, Cameron, that might even make it worse!!! :oops:

"Cletus, put down that bucket and git over here and kiss yer sister!" :cautious:
 

Lynx

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Aug 13, 2014
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#33
I'd like to comment as a woman, if I may, that I would much prefer to have one man that I can kiss 50 times....and 50 times 50 times 50 times 50...and so on :D

Also, a man's past is his past. What is he like now? Is his heart more focused on the Lord than anyone and anything else? What is the Lord's guidance? I'd personally be more concerned about these questions.


Smoochies ftw!
And coffee too!
:whistle::coffee:
Kiss me once
And kiss me twice
And kiss me once again...
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#35
That song needs more kissing!
It's a very old song. They were much more staid and formal back then. At least on the radio they were.
 

CarriePie

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#36
It's a very old song. They were much more staid and formal back then. At least on the radio they were.
True, and I don't know the relationship of the two people in the song. So, it's probably best left as it is. I got too rambunctious due to the topic of the thread!
 

RodB651

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#37
Kisses and smooches are two different things. One is more playful than the other.

You'll have to figure out for yourself which one that is!

🤔
 

Cameron143

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#38
Jiminy Crickets, Cameron, that might even make it worse!!! :oops:

"Cletus, put down that bucket and git over here and kiss yer sister!" :cautious:
She must have had 50 brothers if they finally got to the name Cletus.
 

Tall_Timbers

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#40
I'm married and even if my wife passed away I think I'm done with any dating. If my situation were different though, I wouldn't want to date more than one woman at a time and if the person I was dating was dating others I think I'd conclude that we're not compatible. As far as a person's past, I'd have to treat each person uniquely and give them the benefit of any doubt. I would want to date a person long enough to know them well enough to be able to determine if they would be a good choice for a spouse. When I was younger I would have missed a lot of potential warning signs. I've lived enough now that I think I could know a person pretty well before asking or not asking for her hand.