So, one of my co-workers is transgender (M to F), and recently at work his name officially was changed to his preferred female name. I've thought about it and have two perspectives:
1) People change their names, it's a normal thing. Calling him by his preferred name isn't a big deal.
2) The name he's preferring to be called by now is to match how he is identifying as a female. Me calling him by this name would be harmful, even though from his perspective it'd be affirming and accepting.
If you were in my shoes, how would you handle the situation and why?
1) People change their names, it's a normal thing. Calling him by his preferred name isn't a big deal.
2) The name he's preferring to be called by now is to match how he is identifying as a female. Me calling him by this name would be harmful, even though from his perspective it'd be affirming and accepting.
If you were in my shoes, how would you handle the situation and why?