I need some serious advice

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Nov 11, 2024
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Anyone else notice...
The OP's profile states this is a male.
At no point do they ever say they are a wife, even when referring to the scripture.

Out of curiosity I found the same username on another site, also listed as a male.
I also got my username from a website where they generate usernames for you so its possible that some else could be using my username. But if your talking about youtube or a pet game i play then yes! The one your talking about is mine.
 

Subhumanoidal

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I also got my username from a website where they generate usernames for you so its possible that some else could be using my username. But if your talking about youtube or a pet game i play then yes! The one your talking about is mine.
Actually the other site I found your name also included the same scripture as in your profile. Also an avatar of the same character, but drinking what looked like beer.
It was some sort of game I've never heard of.

You seemed to entirely miss (or probably dodge) the point of my previous post.
 
Nov 11, 2024
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Actually the other site I found your name also included the same scripture as in your profile. Also an avatar of the same character, but drinking what looked like beer.
It was some sort of game I've never heard of.

You seemed to entirely miss (or probably dodge) the point of my previous post.
Like I said, I don't feel safe discussing my gender identity or sexual orientation on a public forum like this since its on google and it's not relevant to the topic. However, I can discuss further on the Christian Chat app.
 
Nov 11, 2024
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Do you really? Or would you rather think the Bible is giving advice for homosexuals to obey their same-sex partner?
Hey im really not feeling well at the moment to discuss this. I don't want to end up in another crisis again. Theres more to the story but I don't feel comfortable discussing it in the public forums. God bless.
 

Magenta

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Hey im really not feeling well at the moment to discuss this. I don't want to end up in another crisis again. Theres more to the story but I don't feel comfortable discussing it in the public forums. God bless.
I am sorry to hear you are not feeling well. It is likely a fact that we all have sin in our lives, so I really do not
wish to condemn you for yours. Still, you cannot live as an openly gay man and say you are following Jesus.
I used to be a lot more tolerant of these things, but the whole world has gone crazy woke, and it is so much
shoved in our faces all over the place that I just can't any more... especially when five year olds are having
to choose their preferences, and have filthy trash posing as literature in school libraries to inculcate them
to sin. Some people cannot even define what a women is, and they think men can menstruate and have children.
If you don't think that's nuts you have larger problems than whether or not you can agree with your husband.
 
Jan 8, 2025
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It s a touchy situation you have. The second one, I would worry about it first. Getting Baptized. Don’t go to your husband asking his opinion on everything. Sometimes it’s better to just as forgiveness as they say. And if he wasn’t brought up in the church, he probably is worried that he is going to lose you. Or lose his authority over you. Which might be another problem that you need to pray to God about. If you have a husband that is over controlling.
As far as Baptism, keep having the faith that you will soon get baptized, let your husband get more used to the church and everybody, and he will see that most churches arnt overbearing on people. If the church you are going to,is like that, then find one that doesn’t try to control your life and has a big to not do this… lost. Just worry isn’t now about pleasing God. But the authority umbrella s God first, then your husband. As far as the word of God goes. So you need to let him know you really want to get baptized but just tell him every so often. Get baptized like Matthew 28:19, states in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Hly Ghost. And don’t let the people in the church pressure you into doing anything you don’t feel God leading yo7 to do. He I’ll tell you more than once, and you will have a great desire to do it. We all have a purpose, God gave each of us a talent to use for Hi, he will show you as you grow. But right now you are a baby in,Christ. Drink the milk of Hos word. I very thing a preacher says it sent always right. Trust me. Know, I was a pastors wife for 38 years. As for that other church, that was just a pure disgrace. They arnt your problem, it sounds l8ke they just don’t have the love for their sanctuary and Gods house. And anyone that likes to see things fixed up would feel the same way you do. Let God take care of them, and find somewhere else to go.
Just keep praying with Faith about your husband and the baptism problem. Most of all pray he will get the desire to serve God like you have, then you can get baptized together.