There are some things in life that can’t be undone. Being intimate with someone is one of those things. Once it happens, you can’t just pretend it didn’t. And once you’ve tasted it, you will only want more of it, more often. As Matthew said, once a relationship reaches the point where certain feelings are stirring, it’s time to talk about boundaries. Boundaries are good. Without them, relationships can be needlessly and irreparably damaged.
Very young women oftentimes don’t understand the fire they are playing with. They truly don’t. I used to be one and all of my friends were too, so I know this. J We didn’t have a clue. There’s a huge difference between reading something in a magazine/romance novel/chick flick/textbook/class conversation and finding yourself in the heat of the moment. It’s very easy to find yourself in over your head before you know it. One thing all young ladies MUST know is this: It is far more difficult and painful for guys to stop than it is for us MOST of the time, so it’s important for us to help them out and not allow things to get anywhere near whatever stopping point we set for our relationships with them.
One thing that men need to understand is that women don’t separate their emotions from physical affection. For us it’s all the same. Once we’re in, we’re all in. When you touch our bodies, you touch our hearts. Non-christian women may not feel this way, but I guarantee you that christian women do.
I also agree with Ugly in that some people have more self-control than others. I think that age and experience is a huge factor in that.
Where have u been hiding, girl??! 
