One doesn't have to take a strict hyper-Calvinistic perspective, as our friend Jimmydiggs has, to answer the fifth question.
It's easy to state that God "desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth" (1 Timothy 2:4) and the freewill of individuals to that is the deciding factor.
I fail to see how it constitutes hyper-calvinism.
Let's see...
The below list comes from Monergism.com
that God is the author of sin and of evil
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that men have no will of their own, and secondary causes are of no effect
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that the number of the elect at any time may be known by men
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that it is wrong to evangelize
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that assurance of election must be sought prior to repentance and faith
[not sure this even makes sense]
- that men who have once sincerely professed belief are saved regardless of what they later do
[not sure what is being said here]
- that God has chosen some races of men and has rejected others
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that the children of unbelievers dying in infancy are certainly damned
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that God does not command everyone to repent
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that the sacraments are not means of grace, but obstacles to salvation by faith alone.
[don't really understand this one]
- that the true church is only invisible, and salvation is not connected with the visible church
[not sure this makes sense]
- that the Scriptures are intended to be interpreted by individuals only and not by the church.
[i don't care for the word interpret, it makes it sound like a painting, but otherwise I don't see how the two can be divorced]
- that no government is to be obeyed which does not acknowledge that Jesus is the Lord, or that Biblical Law is its source of authority
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that the grace of God does not work for the betterment of all men
[don't know much about this]
- that saving faith is equivalent to belief in the doctrine of predestination
[Nope, don't believe this]
- that only Calvinists are Christians (Neo-gnostic Calvinism
[Nope, don't believe this]
(source)
Given that of the things listed, I don't believe any of them, how am I a hyper-calvinist?
I'm just one of them ther' neighborhood calvinists, who believes you and I didn't chose God, but God chose us. That we were so afflicited by sin, that we hated God in our most basic nature, and loved sin.
If you think I'm a Hyper-Calvinist, I wonder what you think about People like Charles Heddon Spurgeon, George Whitefield, John Piper, John MacArthur, Alistair Begg, and Paul Washer. To name a few.
Now that the accusation of heresy is out of the way.
What I meant( I thought about explaining in that post, but assumed it would be understood) is that if God has willed for Ratuur of Calcutta to be saved, he will make sure he is saved. How it will happen, I don't know.
The question wasn't about whether we chose or not, but why people of other religions go to hell. It is used as an argument against Christianity (if you notice, that was even the context she gave, indreictly albeit) so you have to give the most relevant response. Often what is unstated is that the people in mind also have not heard the gospel.
If they haven't heard the gospel, they can't really chose can they?
If someone has had the Gospel presented to them, and they are not of the elect, then they are doomed to hell because they will die apart from saving Grace. It's so simple, even a cave man could understand it!