Not saying it is the case here, but the fact of the matter is that we DO get people coming to sites like these specifically to troll Christians, with the common hook being, oh I am so lonely. We have no idea who new people are, and we actually have had instances where someone joins saying they are a woman and/or using a provocative avatar and wanting to speak to Christians about their relationship issues. One claimed to be a woman and invited men only to PM "her" about her sexual issues. Major red flag much? Some men complained about being cautioned, but hey, this is the internet after all, and boys will be boys. Even Satan tried to get Jesus to sin...