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Koen

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A lot of us want to be happy in christ but is it okay to do that alone? what about a means where we can actually meet someone by introducing ourselves and getting to know each other better.
 
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A lot of us want to be happy in christ but is it okay to do that alone? what about a means where we can actually meet someone by introducing ourselves and getting to know each other better.
Hi Koen, welcome to the site!

It's always okay to be content in Christ, single or not 😎. I always find the best matches when I'm not looking for one, but do as the Lord leads you!

As far as talking and introducing ourselves, start a thread asking a random question on a topic you find interesting and see what happens! This site is built more for conversations than connections, but many good connections have been made from the conversations. It just takes more time and patience than other platforms 🙂.
 

Koen

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Hi Koen, welcome to the site!

It's always okay to be content in Christ, single or not 😎. I always find the best matches when I'm not looking for one, but do as the Lord leads you!

As far as talking and introducing ourselves, start a thread asking a random question on a topic you find interesting and see what happens! This site is built more for conversations than connections, but many good connections have been made from the conversations. It just takes more time and patience than other platforms 🙂.
Thank you very much for the response, I think I found the answers I need, God bless you.
 

Lynx

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A lot of us want to be happy in christ but is it okay to do that alone? what about a means where we can actually meet someone by introducing ourselves and getting to know each other better.
Howdy and welcome to the forum.

This place is more for hanging out and chatting, but who knows? Maybe you'll get lucky.

On this forum the best to chance you have seems to be participating in a lot of conversations and letting people get to know who you are. If your objective is a partner, you will probably get more return with less effort on a different website.

I recommend hanging around here anyway though. It's pretty entertaining here sometimes.
 

Karlon

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A lot of us want to be happy in christ but is it okay to do that alone? what about a means where we can actually meet someone by introducing ourselves and getting to know each other better.
Yes. some people are natural loners. i was to a major extent but not so much as of the last 28 years.
 
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A lot of us want to be happy in christ but is it okay to do that alone? what about a means where we can actually meet someone by introducing ourselves and getting to know each other better.

The forums are not dating sites.
You can get to know others over time like you would anyone else, by communicating and reading posts.
I advised singles to beware of sharing personal information with those looking for a date or whatever.
There' are no way of vetting anyone on the net and waaaay too many lower level Pdiddy, Epstein type pimps looking for fresh meat to sell.
 
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A lot of us want to be happy in christ but is it okay to do that alone? what about a means where we can actually meet someone by introducing ourselves and getting to know each other better.
You can private message if you donate money to the site. Otherwise, someone who donates and has PM privileges can PM you and then you can PM with that person. Outside of that, you're pretty much left with the open forum to get to know someone.
 

CarriePie

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Yes. some people are natural loners. i was to a major extent but not so much as of the last 28 years.
Very true. I think we need all kinds of people in life. Introverts and extroverts and those in between. I've always mostly kept to myself. I'm definitely in a lone wolf phase of life right now. It's not a bad thing. "To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven."
 

Edith

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Hello Koen
Welcome to CC
Here we chat our loneliness away and it's superb. just join us in the discussions. who knows you may find someone.