Duewell. According to the Bible the believer should NEVER want to devorce, so to make up ...he did not want me to persue my faith, will NEVER sit well with God....We only read IF THE UNBELIEVER ANTS TO GO... We never read of a believer that will want to go..... Which husband can stand between a woman and God? NONE! So even if he tries, he cannot! Her faith is not the assembly, her faith is Jesus in her.
My wife is a living example of how to get a husband through the "EVIL YEARS". My wife has always been a Christian. She married this "lost case" of a man...me! And her innocent life said more about God and Jesus, than you could put together of ALL the sermons I heard in my life! She did what God advises in 1 Peter, and I would really be blind not to see the meek and quiet SPIRIT in my wife was that of Chrsit Jesus!
You see these verses is also true... Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;.... 1Pe 3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear......1Pe 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; .....1Pe 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
Let me give you one example.... It is a Sunday... she and the kids wants to go to church, and I have packed the boat and a big picknick basket for all of us. After church is Sunday-school for the kids, but I had no regard for God or the church. So I said...we are going to the dam and that is that. I did not even love my wife then as I should have. She being wise knew I would leave her at home if she argues, but that i will not let her hold the kids at home. So she made the right desision to let go of the church, and go to the dam with her husband and two daughters. NO CHURCH that Sunday as she had planned.
Had she not go, there would have been a lot of swearing and even big tantrums from me. And of coarse she would have sat at home all alone and worry about the family the whole day, becasue I would have come home very late that night.
Anyway, this beautiful ANGEL OF GOD called Lucy, my wife had this for 16 years Duewell... 16 years of hell! But then God had 33and a half. Anyway, in all those 16 years my wife NEVER said a single word to me about "Jesus Christ". Her calm and submissive spirit to this really stupid husband accomplished more than what I first believed... She kept the peace. She kept a family together. She kept a bad husband in store for God. She showed Jesus Christ in her without EVER saying a word about gospel. She held a family in God, for God to work. And God did!
16 Years into marriage she asked me to join them to go to church... That Sunday, God called me. Now 15 years later, Lucy has still the same family but with two new children added, and now her husband is typing here. She still does not say a word and has only prayed for one woman once in her life, but EVERYBODY knows she is an angel. Now it is a pleasure for her to suport her husband.... Her sacrificial suppot of 16 years is now a BLESSING support.
Just a week ago, she said to the oldest daughter... NOW SHE KNOWS COBUS LOVES HER AS HE SHOULD! And she did all this, without EVER saying the two words... "Jesus Christ" to her husband! I asked her... Mommy why do you never witness Jesus Christ, and she said...."Cobus I am the rock you can stand on to preach to the World!"
Duewell if any pastor wnats to take away my rock, he will be shown the fool he is! Like the young man that came to Jesus and said.... GOOD MASTER... And he got what he deserved.... Any person that thinks he can change Lucy to be "Good woman" will be a fool! She is way past "good woman" becasue she is what God made her to be. The perfect wife and mother!
Let me use this oppertunity to say.... "Lord thank you that you gave me Lucy, she is indeed an angel sent to save Cobus. My loving Father, let thou will be done in us as in heaven. And Lord send the Truth teachers, for the harvest is great, send us the harvesters for YOUR GLORY, Amen!