Why are Christians leaving their churches?

[Reddogs]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

 

[homwardbound]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

Religion's original meaning
What am I doing to get a deity to respond to me?

If I get any Deity to respond to me by my doings, than that would make me God over any Deity!

God loves us all, sent Son to prove this to us all in his perfect work first on earth without ever sinning against God ever
This was done for us all through his death, us all now by God through Son Jesus reconciled us all as reconciled, forgiven first.
To giv en new life In Father's Spirit and Truth John 4:23-24 to lead us in love and mercy to all, since that is done in us first
We love because God loves us first 1 John 4

 

[2ndTimeIsTheCharm]

Institutional churches are going to ne part of the one-world religion, so God is calling His people out of them.


🕊

 

[BBerean]

200 years ago the Protestant churches many believed where apostate and left them , many groups have formed since those days , like mormans , JW , and others . The real problem is they do not read and learn from the Bible , and then they would understand the conditions of answers to prayer . answers to prayers are so encouraging, and doing Gods will as well because we reap in time what we sow , good or bad . Jesus said in Matthew 24 and Luke 21 many will come in my name and deceive MANY ! You must be able to read the word or most likely end up being deceived. So many false teachings are very convincing, so knowing the truth is so important. The scriptures are the fact check . Jude gives a warning as well verse 4 ungodly men turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness , and denying the only Lord God , and our Lord Jesus Christ . So here we have loose living by the grace of God that ends up in denial or apostasy. False teaching is the root of it all according to Jude . And it’s prophetic by Apostle Paul saying before anti Christ comes there will be a falling away . The solution stay in the word watch and pray God bless !

 

[UnoiAmarah]

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

Faith and believing are two different things. There is an expanse between believing something is true and knowing something is true. Faith allows the believer to come to the knowledge of the truth whereby we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive. And that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men: for all men have not faith.

 

[God-fearing]

Christianity is not a thing to practice its a life you live. It's about relationship not ritual. It's about enduring not instant gratification.
It's about giving thanks for what you have not praying for what you want.

There are many reasons people leave the assembly....for that is the true name of the so called church.
False teachings, need to grow, dislike of others, worldly distractions. The list goes on.
The question maybe why they came in the first place.

 

[Aussie52]

Many who are leaving their churches is because of the diluted gospel they were supposably saved under. The church is full of converts to 'easy believeism' and because they have not experienced true conversion, they leave dissatisfied.

 

[Inquisitor]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

I think we may be touching on the falling away.

With the rise of social media there is an enormous level of distraction these days.

I have seen people at traffic lights with their face buried in the phone, car horns blaring.

I have seen six school aged boys each scrolling on their phones on a train, and no one even
speaking. How unusual is that in fourteen year old boys.

Virtually the entire train is scrolling on their phones.

Church cannot compete with that and especially the older, traditional churches.

This is definitely one of the big factors in the decline of Christianity.

 

[GWH]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

Your post describes my experience being raised as a Southern Baptist.
Fortunately, my father was a mechanical engineer, who was a Christian "because it was the best belief",
and seeking the best beliefs/answers regarding such issues as those cited in #2-4 has been my life-long quest.

I share the results of my learning in my threads: Apologetics (The Best Belief), Kerygma (GRFS), the TOJ & TOP, etc.
(I continue to fine-tune my learning as I encounter various beliefs on CC and conduct systematic studies :^)

 

[Mem]

When Jesus drove out those buying and selling and overturned the tables at the temple He said to them, "It is written, "My house shall be called a house of prayer, but you have made it a den of thieves.' (Matt 21:13)."

Who was being robbed there? And what were they being robbed of?

The next verse, Matt 21:14, says, "The blind and the lame came to Him at the temple, and He healed them."
And when they were indignant when they saw the wonders that He performed and heard the children in the temple courts shouting, "Hosanna to the Son of David," the chief priests and scribes asked Him, "Do you hear what these children are saying?!" He answered, "Yes. Have you never read: 'From the mouths of children and infants, You have ordained praise'? (Matt 21:16)"

He was referring to David's scripture, Psalm 8:2 which continues, "...on account of Your adversaries, to silence the enemy and avenger."

Priests that turn sin into merchandise might advertise these days with the ad, "You can't afford a lamb? Well then, we have just the thing you need. Turtle doves on sale! Yes, sir, by the looks of you, you'd be prudent to pick up a dozen of them.

And this sales pitch has worked because the customers are burdened by their sins and to be delivered is exactly why the come in the first place. But if you want them to keep coming, and bringing their purse, you can't completely deliver them, you have to leave some starter leaven so you can bake another loaf for next week so... eventually, the customer will realize they're being robbed.

 

[timf]

Some leave a church because their consumer preferences are not met such as a coffee bar or day care. Some leave because it seems a waste of time from recreational alternatives. A few leave because of a thirst for truth is not met.

Christianity was always supposed to be relational (us with God and each other). When Christianity was run as an organizational system, it became less relatable. When doctrine is presented as final and complete (to prevent error) it becomes static and unquestionable. Church structure (particularly denominational) usually stifles individual growth and maturity. Those with a thirst for more usually begin to explore other denominations and finally to pursue individual inquiry by looking at web sites like the following;

Christian Pioneer

Christian Pioneer - Answers to questions about Christianity

christianpioneer.com

 

[Karlon]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

currently, my wife & i are not attending church, haven't in 5 years. why? because no pastor around is a solid teacher-peacher. the pastors on tv are much more talented: Adrian Rogers, Charles Stanley, Robert Jeffress, David Jeremiah, & a few others. lots of pastors speaking 500 words that can be taught in 100 words, getting right to the crux of the subject. i miss attending church. i've been praying Jesus would send a pastor the revives the area.

 

[biblestudent78]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

In 21st century Christianity have we reverted to comforting magic ideas “proven” by magic words? Do we see God’s will in the world dedicated to our calming our personal insecurities, selfish lifestyles and infidelities? Is the greatest gift of 21st century Christianity finally being free and guiltless while we continue in our most carnal and destructive self-interest? We have magic words to claim, magic theological formulas, magical and mystical reliance on a book we do not read. In our vacuous rush to justification in our own eyes, it is no longer possible to be unfaithful in love if we are pure in our “faith.”

Is 21st century Christianity hiding in plain sight were nobody, but insiders can see it? Is our greatest security in compliance with our preferred dogmas or with the call to shoulder our cross and offer our lives as a living sacrifice? Is conversion just a change of mind or a change of life? In any public gathering, what is the possibility of determining who are Christians? Theoretically, Christians should stand out in a crowd of pagans, but we are invisible.

On average 2% of the general population is now or has cared for a foster child. Christians average 3%. Christians are indistinguishable from the general population in rates of divorce. Sexual and financial abuse by Christian “leaders” are exposed regularly. The 10 leading Christian Protestant pastors have a combined net worth of $1billion, making Christianity look like just another shady business proposition. Some Christians are claiming their Jesus-given right to rule America. Approximately 28% of young men, under 30 years old, report not having any close social connections. They have never personally asked a woman for a date. This is a significant increase from only 3% in the early 1990s. In fact, a 2021 study found that 15% of all men reported having no close friends, up from 3% in the early 1990s. In North America rates of church attendance and participation in faith-based activities are in a decades long decline.

Interpersonal relationships are breaking down. In 2023, the average age for a first marriage in the United States was 30.2 years for men and 28.4 years for women. Divorce rates for first marriages are 50% and 65% for second marriages. These figures represent a steady increase from 1950, when the median age for men was 22.5 and for women was 20.1. The median age of first marriage has been rising for both men and women since 1998. The percentage of US children living in single-parent households has nearly tripled since 1960, increasing from 9% to 25% by 2023. Jesus said a divorced person, except for adultery, may not remarry yet between 20% to 50% of happy Christians fail this command.

In the US, a significant portion of the adult population reports having a habit of watching pornography. A survey conducted in 2022 found that 60% of respondents admitted to having this habit, while 33% said they did not. Male individuals are notably more likely to report watching pornography than females. For example, studies indicate that up to 70% of men and 40% of women in the US have used pornography within the past year. Newly added addictions are social media and video gaming.

According to Pew Research, both Catholic and Protestants in North America that are leaving their religion most often note that they see no difference between people “in Church” and those who have no religion. Too often they see those living a “God-free life” as living more honestly, holistically and with less fear and confliction. Many prefer a “personal spirituality.” The Southern Baptist Convention reported a loss of 259,824 members in 2024, bringing its total membership to 12.7 million, the lowest number in 50 years.

Somewhere between 3,850 to 7,700 Christian congregations close each year in the United States. This is often because they are composed of only old members. This equates to roughly 75 to 150 congregations per week. Some experts predict that this trend may accelerate, with some estimating that 100,000 US churches could close in the next few decades. Megachurches are an alternative for some.

Something may be going wrong with our core concepts about 21st century Protestant Christianity.

For many, the perception of Jesus is that He follows us around while we live out our lives. He is our constant companion. He is looking after us forgiving us no matter what we do or how we live. The very idea that Jesus calls us to follow him daily, doing his will, loving, healing, reconciling, encouraging, forgiving, caring and learning how to be His disciples, His hands, His feet, His heart. Matthew 25 is the least preached text of 21st century Christianity.

 

[tablet123]

Pro 30:11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.
Pro 30:12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.
Pro 30:13 There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up.
Pro 30:14 There is a generation, whose teeth are as swords, and their jaw teeth as knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, and the needy from among men.

The last generation before Jesus takes over the world.

2Ti 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2Ti 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
2Ti 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
2Ti 3:4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
2Ti 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
2Ti 3:7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

The world gets worse in arrogance, and wanting to have their way more as time goes on for that is the direction they are going.

Ever since Adam and Eve sinned the world has been headed to the beast kingdom.

It was inevitable.

They fight over every thing there is to fight about which they exalt themselves more.

And now it is time for the men and women to fight and parents and children to fight and has been for a while.

It was inevitable.

Soon it will be the new age against people that do not accept them.

The religion of the antichrist.

1Ti 4:1 Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils;
1Ti 4:2 Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron.

2Ti 4:2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
2Ti 4:3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
2Ti 4:4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.

We know the world will go further and further away from Christianity or at least the truth of it.

To an interpretation that exalts people according to their own lusts.

And they will follow the new age christianty that exalts people and there is no personal God.

The 1960's counter culture movement was a bad movement and sent America on a course of increased selfishness, arrogance, and not accepting the truth.

Do your own thing and the age of the children rebelling got younger and younger.

Mat 24:12 And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.

The Woke movement came about because of the attitude of America caused by the counter culture movement.

Mean spirited and hateful stepping out of the bounds of reality to exalt themselves.

Wanting to believe they can be whatever they want to be.

And believe what they want to believe.

That is why they influence the children so they will accept the Woke movement.

The Woke movement are prime candidates for the new age.

Pro 30:11 There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.

Eph 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
Eph 6:2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise).

It is the first commandment with promise because if children humble themselves before their parents they will most likely humble themselves before God.

The 1960's counter culture movement was about rebelling against authority.

Eph 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

Parents also have a responsibility to behave right so the children do not get discouraged and not want to obey.

Oh you are going to tell me how to behave and you cannot act right.

It is a vicious cycle.

The youth rebelling in the 1960's.

They grow up with less morals and become parents.

Their children grow up with less morals and do not listen to their parents as much and have children.

And so forth.

The 1960's counter culture movement which was a selfish movement, do your own thing like the Satanic doctrine thou shalt do what you want and that is the whole of the law.

And rebellion against authority including parents.

Where music was their master and savior and following the hippie Jesus.

And America started to decline in love, and morals.

For it took them away from the 1950's attitude to an attitude that was inferior, selfish, and bad.

That is what the song Bye Bye Miss American Pie by Don Mclean was about who experienced the change and did not like it.

Which he was pointing out that the 1950's was great and a better time but the 1960's counter culture ruined it and there was no reversal and he did not like it.

Pointing out that music was their savior but can music save your mortal soul.

So music has a big impact on people and in this case a negative.

Bye Bye Miss American Pie

A long, long time ago
I can still remember how that music
Used to make me smile
And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance

The 1950's.

Did you write the book of love
And do you have faith in God above
If the Bible tells you so?
Now, do you believe in rock 'n' roll
Can music save your mortal soul
And can you teach me how to dance real slow?

Where they reverenced God and the Bible as priority.

Well, I know that you're in love with him
'Cause I saw you dancin' in the gym
You both kicked off your shoes
Man, I dig those rhythm and blues
I was a lonely teenage bronckin' buck
With a pink carnation and a pickup truck
But I knew I was out of luck
The day the music died

The 1950's sock hop.

Now, for ten years we've been on our own
And moss grows fat on a rollin' stone
But that's not how it used to be

Basically isolated from society that did not approve of them and the nation divided.

Where in the 1950's they were united.

When the jester sang for the king and queen
In a coat he borrowed from James Dean
And a voice that came from you and me
Oh, and while the king was looking down
The jester stole his thorny crown
The courtroom was adjourned
No verdict was returned

Bob Dylan and his protest messages which shined with no problem.

And while Lenin read a book on Marx
A quartet practiced in the park
And we sang dirges in the dark
The day the music died

Dirges- a lament for the dead, especially one forming part of a funeral rite.

A mournful song, piece of music, or sound.

The players tried for a forward pass
With the jester on the sidelines in a cast
Now, the halftime air was sweet perfume
While sergeants played a marching tune
We all got up to dance
Oh, but we never got the chance
'Cause the players tried to take the field
The marching band refused to yield
Do you recall what was revealed
The day the music died?

The sergeants is the Beatles.

The players are the main players of the game with the marching band supporting them.

But the players could not take the field for now the marching band are the main players.

Oh, and there we were all in one place
A generation lost in space
With no time left to start again

Woodstock, a generation lost and confused which there was no reversal for the movement became too popular.

So, come on, Jack be nimble, Jack be quick
Jack Flash sat on a candlestick
'Cause fire is the Devil's only friend
Oh, and as I watched him on the stage
My hands were clenched in fists of rage
No angel born in Hell
Could break that Satan spell
And as the flames climbed high into the night
To light the sacrificial rite
I saw Satan laughing with delight
The day the music died

The Rolling Stones.

I met a girl who sang the blues
And I asked her for some happy news
But she just smiled and turned away

Janis Joplin.

They were saying peace and love but many were not that happy like the 1950's for there was more pain, and confusion, and drugs messing them up.

Eventually they were not in harmony with each other as from the start.

I went down to the sacred store
Where I'd heard the music years before
But the man there said the music wouldn't play

It was over for the change the counter culture made was here to stay.

And in the streets the children screamed
The lovers cried, and the poets dreamed
But not a word was spoken
The church bells all were broken
And the three men I admire most
The Father, Son and the Holy Ghost
They caught the last train for the coast
The day the music died

It started a decline in people to start going away from Christianity and was the doing of the devil.

And they were singin', "Bye, bye, Miss American Pie"
Drove my Chevy to the levee, but the levee was dry
And them good ol' boys were drinkin' whiskey and rye
Singin', "This'll be the day that I die
This'll be the day that I die"

They were not approved of by the people who wanted to cling on to the 1950's attitude and saw the many serious flaws and damage the counter culture movement did.

Bye Bye Miss American Pie.

The day the music died.

America would never be the same again and we see the results today compared to the 1950's attitude which was called the Golden Years and the people more truly in harmony without the division the 1960's caused.

 

[biblestudent78]

Tablet123
I applaud your taste in music and your expert interweaving of God's Word with right wing 21st century politics. I will see you cards and up the deal... Lyrics and music

 

[Reddogs]

Christianity is not a thing to practice its a life you live. It's about relationship not ritual. It's about enduring not instant gratification.
It's about giving thanks for what you have not praying for what you want.

There are many reasons people leave the assembly....for that is the true name of the so called church.
False teachings, need to grow, dislike of others, worldly distractions. The list goes on.
The question maybe why they came in the first place.

Very true, but man will always seek the truth, and Christ has it for us..

 

[biblestudent78]

Very true, but man will always seek the truth, and Christ has it for us..

Very true, but man will always seek the truth, and Christ has it for us..

Jesus's "truth."
“When the Son of Man comes in his glory and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. All the nations will be assembled before him, and he will separate people one from another like a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. Then the king will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I was naked and you gave me clothing, I was sick and you took care of me, I was in prison and you visited me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or naked and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the king will answer them, ‘I tell you the truth, just as you did it for one of the least of these brothers or sisters of mine, you did it for me.’

“Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you accursed, into the eternal fire that has been prepared for the devil and his angels! For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink. I was a stranger and you did not receive me as a guest, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’ Then they too will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not give you whatever you needed?’ Then he will answer them, ‘I tell you the truth, just as you did not do it for one of the least of these, you did not do it for me.’ And these will depart into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.”

 

[wattie]

When membership in a local church is mocked, or the 'I'm part of the universal, spiritual church, so don't need to attend local church ' mantra is pushed and pushed.. then that is also key in the decline.

Membership to a New Testament local church (although it is always local).. is completely biblical.

The Mathew 18 passages about church discipline shows this membership.

The people added to the church at Jerusalem in Acts. By context..that is already saved people being added.

Because this site is a lot of source for christian fellowship and teaching..and due to some living far away from a NT church.. I get that this becomes a main source. But don't down play the local church. It is 'the pillar and ground of the truth '..when operating biblically sound.

 

[memberofthebride]

Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:

'#1 Southern Baptist​

Ever wondered why some folks who used to be really into Christianity are now saying “no thanks” to the whole faith thing? Well, we found a bunch of them on social media sharing their stories. From growing up with certain beliefs to discovering things that didn’t quite add up, these former Christians have some interesting reasons for losing their faith. Let’s dive into their tales and see what changed their minds.

“Short answer: grew up Southern Baptist. When I started getting to the age where I could think critically about things, I just started noticing some inconsistencies. Specifically, I was told that people who believed in other religions would go to hell because they followed the “wrong” religion. What?? When religion is based a lot on where you are born, I just could not truly believe that people would be sent to hell for being born in the “wrong” country.”

This user’s critical reflection on his Southern Baptist upbringing struck a chord, particularly when confronted with the notion that people of different religions could face damnation solely based on their place of birth. The recognition that entire populations could be condemned for circumstances beyond their control raised questions about the fairness and logic of such a religious perspective, ultimately leading to a reconsideration of the user’s faith journey.

#2 Mythology Class in College​

“Taking a mythology class in college and realizing all the different religions had similar origin stories of how earth and man were created and evolved, but the details differed based on the environment the people lived in and how far along they were technologically. Anything science couldn’t explain was the will of a higher power.

Not saying higher powers COULDN’T exist, just realized people are killing each other because theirs is the ‘right God’, but the people don’t realize that for all intents and purposes, they are all following the similar lessons/stories.”

In a broader context, the user’s revelation in their mythology class illuminated the commonality among diverse religions. As they explored various mythologies, they discerned parallels in the stories of Earth’s creation and human evolution. The realization that different cultures, despite varied details, shared fundamental narratives about higher powers and unexplained phenomena prompted a reconsideration of religious exclusivity.

#3 Being Told Not to Question Faith​

“Being told to not question my faith made me lose my faith. If I cannot question what I believe in to better understand it, then it wasn’t worth believing in it in the first place. Or they are hiding something they don’t want me to find out, which makes me even more skeptical of it.”

For this user, the very act of questioning was essential for a deeper understanding of his beliefs. When this exploration was stifled, it raised doubts about the authenticity and solidity of the faith. The suppression of questions created a perception that there might be hidden aspects or inconsistencies that authorities sought to conceal. This lack of transparency and the inability to engage in an open dialogue eroded the user’s confidence in the faith, as genuine belief, for them, required a foundation built on inquiry and understanding.

#4 Unfulfilled Prayers​

“I was in a hard time for me and I started praying, attending catholic activities and doing lots of other things like these. I wasn’t feeling better. Years after I gave up doing these things and started taking care of me by myself and now I’m happy. So the faith gradually went away. I’m not fully an atheist though, I may be an agnostic but I’m not sure.”

In this instance, the user’s experience revolves around a personal struggle where traditional religious practices did not provide the expected relief or improvement. The subsequent shift towards self-care and the positive outcome generated skepticism about the effectiveness of religious rituals. The realization that personal agency and self-care contributed more significantly to their well-being than religious practices prompted a reevaluation of faith......https://milliondollarsense.com/christianity-to-atheism

They are leaving --as you stated "their churches" not God One Church, God is not the god of division, God is ONE

 

[rewriter]

All the reasons listed have been around for quite some time and yet were not such big problems. However, the church is becoming increasingly hypocritical, Christians acting like non-Christians yet claiming that they are acceptable to God while the others are not. Add to that point that people are becoming increasingly aware of the historical records in which Christians admit that there are multiple, sometimes very large groups, of non-Christians who act far more like Christians than the Christians do, and even ancient Christian records that accept some non-Christians as no more than a half step away from God while some Christians are several steps away.

It becomes a consistent record that it is not enough to use one's mouth to be a Christian, mouthing the proper words at the proper times, but how one actually acts. Christians are increasingly becoming negative witnesses for Christ while mouthing the words calling people to Him. Do not look at outside sources for the slow decay of the church in the modern day, look instead to the mirror.