Why are Christians leaving their churches?

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Very true, but man will always seek the truth, and Christ has it for us..

Rom 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:

Rom 3:11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.

Rom 3:12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
 
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Rom 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:

Rom 3:11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.

Rom 3:12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
The above are true. But God through His prevenient grace draws the lost soul, frees the will so it may accept or reject God's offer of pardon and salvation.
 
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Perhaps the reality of why 7,000 churches close each year and that the family pathologies of Christians and non-Christians are the same. Combined with the zero impact Christianity has on our culture suggests a useless theology at least as it is applied currently. It is useless because it has removed itself from any mission to anything but "souls." In too many ways the collection of souls is equivalent the collection of scalps on the frontier. Our scalps are people in the seats. Our key tool is cheap salvation. Just believe in a "salvation prayer" and your scalp goes on the loge pole of whatever of the hundreds of sects that claim the power to book a deal "guaranteeing" eternity bliss, which they don't have in their inventory.

We have perverted God's plan for a nation of servants, redeemers, healers, reconcilers, lovers, repenters and participants in God's redemptive work, in exchange for pew fillers believing that believing is all that matters and everyone is bankrupt as a result. If Christianity is not a conversion mission to learn to love, forgive, help, heal and sacrifice yourself, what have we replaced it with? Pewology? The poor, indigent, unwashed and without the right race, dress and social standing required, are "invisible," besides that's the government's job." If our dogmas filter them out and our pretend piety offends them then they are obviously condemned beyond reach or are they are the reality we can never bring ourselves to face. If so, then the closure of 7,000 churches a year is way too few.
 
It is indeed true that the Church is not influencing culture like it had once. If one studies past moves of God, the men God used and the message they preached, we find much difference to that of today.
There was no 'easy believism', 'sinner's prayer' or telling people they are saved just because they came down to the front etc.
Men of the past preached on sin, wrath of God, Hell, repentance and holiness. Not quite 'seeker friendly' stuff that comes from our modern pulpits today. Sin committing Christians could not hide their sinfulness behind such questionable ideas like, 'I'm righteous in Christ", "God doesn't see my sin, He sees Jesus". God sees us as we really are and we should tremble.
The Church needs to seek God afresh, repent, and get back to the Bible.
It is our only hope.
 
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200 years ago the Protestant churches many believed where apostate and left them , many groups have formed since those days , like mormans , JW , and others . The real problem is they do not read and learn from the Bible , and then they would understand the conditions of answers to prayer . 🙏 answers to prayers are so encouraging, and doing Gods will as well because we reap in time what we sow , good or bad . Jesus said in Matthew 24 and Luke 21 many will come in my name and deceive MANY ! You must be able to read the word or most likely end up being deceived. So many false teachings are very convincing, so knowing the truth is so important. The scriptures are the fact check . Jude gives a warning as well verse 4 ungodly men turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness , and denying the only Lord God , and our Lord Jesus Christ . So here we have loose living by the grace of God that ends up in denial or apostasy. False teaching is the root of it all according to Jude . And it’s prophetic by Apostle Paul saying before anti Christ comes there will be a falling away . The solution stay in the word watch and pray 🙏 God bless !
IMHO the rapid erosion of Christianity is because it has lost it mission and thus it's value. Those leaving are not "lured away" by false teaching. They are leaving because of the false practice of what is called Christianity today. They see no difference in the lives of Christians and Pagans. They are correct. There is no difference in action, commitment, honesty, integrity, mercy, love and self-sacrifice from those in the pews and those who have no idea what a pew is. We are not plagued with false teachers we are plagued by false practitioners. It's not that they see a better Christian dogma somewhere else. It they see the exact same social, cultural and personal pathologies inside the church and outside the church. They see 10 pastors worth collectively over $1billion. They see nationally elevated and worshipped church leaders exposed as common criminals, morally corrupt and vastly rich. They see a Christianity that has vended it's love for and commitment to those in need to the government. They see personal difference of opinions about religiously irrelevant issues destroying entire congregations. They see churches divided by race, income, education and politics that are no different than their country clubs, political parties and families. They see churches that are little more than a sunday platform for politics. They see people consciously devoted to believing "right" as a free pass to live any damned way they chose. Some leave "mainline" Christianity in search of group more focused on Christian living over Christian dogmas.

Christianity is in decline in North America because it is almost totally invisible. Perhaps those leaving Christianity agree with the old country preacher who said, "Some people are so heavenly minded, they are no earthly good."
 
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Church attendance has been going down and many are leaving there churches, only about 20% of U.S. adults attend church weekly today. I remember when back in the day, everyone went to a church, but it seems no longer. Then you have this which is very interesting..
Christians Tell Why They Are No Longer Religious:
Some, on coming to churches, after the initial conversion impulse soon discover that the various teachings of the churches do not provide much for the regeneration, or otherwise, that some doctrines, considered authoritative, accepted by the church councils, have to be believed by faith into the church authorities, even though they cannot be rationally understood.
 
Some, on coming to churches, after the initial conversion impulse soon discover that the various teachings of the churches do not provide much for the regeneration, or otherwise, that some doctrines, considered authoritative, accepted by the church councils, have to be believed by faith into the church authorities, even though they cannot be rationally understood.
The problem is that the various church councils all issued decrees that applied only for specific regions, the 7 "great councils" for example only applied within the Roman Empire, even though they are now considered binding throughout the world by most people. A council finding that applies only in a single diocese in France is another example of something that has spread far beyond its official area of application.
 
Do not confuse "Christianity" and church attendance with belief.

No doubt these declines indicate a sick society going the wrong way down the hill. It is a true shame. But many of these souls have found a greater truth and reject the corruption they see. Choosing to learn and grow in Christ outside the false teachings is not a bad thing. When the church stops teaching truth, some will find it where it has always been.

The First testament calls this the remnant.
 
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Do not confuse "Christianity" and church attendance with belief.

No doubt these declines indicate a sick society going the wrong way down the hill. It is a true shame. But many of these souls have found a greater truth and reject the corruption they see. Choosing to learn and grow in Christ outside the false teachings is not a bad thing. When the church stops teaching truth, some will find it where it has always been.

The First testament calls this the remnant.
You get to a point that you have to leave. It seems they are worshiping the Jesus some bible college created. Stuck on bad doctrine, no more seeking, one man preaching, tithing, praying for nations and military, etc... Depending on where you live, it can be a real downer. Here is the saddest part, I'm an idiot and I've outgrown church. That's just sad.
 
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Yeah, our household left the Sunday boxes but we never left the Lord, or rather, He never left us. That experience caused me to mature in the Lord as the priest over my family. Without that training I would not have known how to watch over the souls of others.

For me, I heard the Spirit speak "Come out of her!" over 20 years ago. He spoke similarly to many others over the centuries. Someone has to go first.
 
I think it is terribly sad that the church sees this happening and does nothing. Once, when I tried to talk to the Pastor, alone and with respect, I was rejected as a heretic and shunned; two favorite weapons of the church. I believe the training they get at "seminary" blinds them to truth.

Trying to change from within is impossible. This just breaks my heart.
 
200 years ago the Protestant churches many believed where apostate and left them , many groups have formed since those days , like mormans , JW , and others . The real problem is they do not read and learn from the Bible , and then they would understand the conditions of answers to prayer . 🙏 answers to prayers are so encouraging, and doing Gods will as well because we reap in time what we sow , good or bad . Jesus said in Matthew 24 and Luke 21 many will come in my name and deceive MANY ! You must be able to read the word or most likely end up being deceived. So many false teachings are very convincing, so knowing the truth is so important. The scriptures are the fact check . Jude gives a warning as well verse 4 ungodly men turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness , and denying the only Lord God , and our Lord Jesus Christ . So here we have loose living by the grace of God that ends up in denial or apostasy. False teaching is the root of it all according to Jude . And it’s prophetic by Apostle Paul saying before anti Christ comes there will be a falling away . The solution stay in the word watch and pray 🙏 God bless !
I agree with you. Bible study is very important especially during these troubled times.
 
There are still many very good churches. If you can't find one, begin a house church. God may grow it.
 
You get to a point that you have to leave. It seems they are worshiping the Jesus some bible college created. Stuck on bad doctrine, no more seeking, one man preaching, tithing, praying for nations and military, etc... Depending on where you live, it can be a real downer. Here is the saddest part, I'm an idiot and I've outgrown church. That's just sad.
I know a number of people in your situation. They find religion unfulfilling and frustrating. At the church I attend we have 12 seperate "ministries" that are focused on serving the needs of our community. It has been my experience that doing Christianity is always more fulfilling and edifying than contemplating it. Why not give it a try in your community? Many have found the heart of Christ in serving, helping and even skinning a few knees and elbows. For many it has "unfrozen" Christianity.
 
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I think it is terribly sad that the church sees this happening and does nothing. Once, when I tried to talk to the Pastor, alone and with respect, I was rejected as a heretic and shunned; two favorite weapons of the church. I believe the training they get at "seminary" blinds them to truth.

Trying to change from within is impossible. This just breaks my heart.
Seminaries have a tendency to teach a specific institutional program, and too many students unconsciously accept it as the only truth and thus get upset when someone thinks or believes differently. My pastor asked why I attended his church when he knows how radically different my beliefs are and I told him because I felt his heart was in the right place and the congregation welcomed me. I just wonder what he thinks about one adult Sunday School class asking me to teach, knowing that I will teach differently than is normal.
 
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Rom 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:

Rom 3:11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.

Rom 3:12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
Man will not always seek the "truth." Like a bird he is captured by a bird snatcher and carried away. Seminaries are not places of refuse. They are, if authentic, places of questions.
 
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