I'm saying that there are a few who are OK with it...but of those who are, at least half will become unable to be ok with it due to their wife's behavior.
Do men dislike a woman with a higher salary?
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Oh so you do think it's a dealbreaker for most guys? And obviously I wouldn't torment him with it, there are plenty of guys who are smarter than me but just choose a less well paying field (like science). Or is it different when the guy also has multiple degrees but just a less paying field than what you mentioned before, a lot of guys don't have a degree? What do you think?
My 3rd wife listed my height as one of the reasons she wanted to leave me. Somehow it wasn't a problem when she decided to marry me. FWIW, I did not get any shorter, and she did not get any taller. Unfortunately I've never been in a relationship where the woman made more money than me. I'd certainly be ok with that.
Oh I'm sorry that that happened to you, she might've been making excuses to cover her bad behavior? (I don't know ofcourse since I don't know your story but it is weird she suddenly mentioned that)
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If I were you, I wouldn't worry about this at all. During his incarnation, there were women who ministered to Jesus of their substance. Luke 8:1-3. It didn't seem to bother him, and he is the ideal man and the one who truly provides for us all. Maybe this is not the perfect analogy, but there are much more important things in life to concern one's self with than another person's salary.
Hi I'm sorry I replied so late, I didn't see your comment.
I don't really have a minimum salary tbh. I don't think my reproductive window is any of your business but I am 23 so I think I'm fine. My professors aren't left wing at all. I also don't want an "alpha" male.
I never had any debt because I'm not from the US. No I don't own property yet.
I don't completely understand your next point, sorry, but I seem to understand you mean women with a higher salary often divorce men when they have a lower salary. If that is what you mean, I would not divorce a man because of that.
Oh uh personally I don't believe relationships are mostly about that but I do think attraction is important. But it's not the reasoning in a (Christian) relationship (usually)
think of all the talent God gave to women. they have been oppressed & suppressed for centuries. that idea that women should stay home is old fashioned & now-a-days, nonsense.
Well, I don't plan to become a "furry" anytime soon. Even if I do have a hairy chest.Lol!
I've had the honor of spending time in real life with The Infamous Cinder over several meetups.
Don't tell her that I spilled this top secret information, but I know the real way to her heart.
It involves furry ears, four paws, and a healthy bark...
But don't tell her I said anything.
I do like dogs, but I've never had one. Kind of dog does she have?
I think most women with high salary don't mind tbh, at least I don't
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passion84god
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David and his men received provisions from Abigail. 1 Samuel 25:14-35.
The prophet Elisha received the provisions of bread and lodging from a woman. 2 Kings 4:8-11.
Again, look to Jesus. He became poor that we might inherit eternal riches. The way that a godly man provides is not limited to finances, and it often has nothing to do with finances at all.
That's a very interesting comment to me. I would like to know anybody who would say that attraction is not important. If attraction is not important how do you come together? I guess I'm a little slow since I taught about magnetism in science this past year and perhaps the metaphor doesn't translate.
No I never said attraction isn't important, I said the opposite actually. I said it is important but not the most important at all. And the first part of my comment was referring to the guy who said that sex was the most important.