I was only being reciprocal. That guy is the one who repeatedly deployed strawman tactics by insinuating me of demonzing marriage as inherently bad and idolatrous, and I've clarified that it all depends on the character of you and your partner; it's like the value of a smartphone is largely determined NOT by its case, screen, circuit, battery and other compotents, but by the contents and apps in it; the value of a bag, even a Gucci or a Hermès bag, is largely determined NOT by its own design and glamor, but by the contents it carries; or a more glaring example, an exquisite vintage jewelry box with encrusted gems and filigree, yet no jewels in it. That's what it is like when you desire for marriage while still in singlehood. Is it really that hard to understand?