Finding a Jesus, loving woman

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Hi Patrick that is a beautiful desire you have and there are many women who have the same ideals. Be involved in the Threads here and get to know some of the members. There have been matches here but it takes a minute or two, lol. Is there any volunteer work in your area bc many people meet that way as well. I pray the Lord blesses you soon...find some promises from God such as Mk 11:24. Blessings
 
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I try not to be a part of the world. I have to live in it, but I don’t wanna be a part of it. There’s so many people that talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk. I want somebody who has the character of Jesus also. Whether as a wife or a friend. It’s just hard finding good true believers and followers of Jesus. I guess this is a way for me to put myself out there a little bit and see what’s out there.
 
Why is it so hard to find a true woman of Jesus? I just want to find somebody to share the love with Jesus with. Been celibate for six years, waiting for the right woman.
how do you identify a woman of Jesus?
How do you identify yourself a man of God?
 
Just being celibate until marriage. By being born again. That’s the only way to get to heaven. The whole Bible is all about words being born again and becoming a firstborn son so you can receive the inheritance of Jesus Christ. That inheritance is eternal life with him. You have to treat everybody with kindness and love. Jesus gave us the perfect example on how to live your life and that’s what you’re supposed to do.
 
I would suggest to get together with other believers, actual face to face meeting, a good biblical church.
 
I have a Bible study group that I do it with. I don’t go to church. Jesus said my word is spirit and life. And when he had ascended into heaven, he told the apostles, I have to go now, so the comforter can come. The Holy Spirit. So he can bring back my words to your remembrance. Spirit is the words of Jesus.
 
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I have a Bible study group that I do it with. I don’t go to church. Jesus said my word is spirit and life. And when he had ascended into heaven, he told the apostles, I have to go now, so the comforter can come. The Holy Spirit. So he can bring back my words to your remembrance. Spirit is the words of Jesus.
Interesting.
may you find Jesus guidance in Bible study group.
 
Godly woman only exists in classical fiction books, and that's where I look for them.
 
lol im searching for Christian man - maybe around 60ish or 70ish age range idk - not too far from maryland - im a simple girl GOD JESUS MY KIDS & OUR CATS ALWAYS 1st !!! 🩷🩷🩷- luv the 1970's era,jeans tee flipflops,flea markets ,shoppin ,takin walks front porch swing ,sweet tea ,classic rock n top 40 n Christian contemporary my favs like most all music,like watchin tv, mostly a simple homebody like a big heart sweet guy sense of humor n sincerity
 
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Why is it so hard to find a true woman of Jesus? I just want to find somebody to share the love with Jesus with. Been celibate for six years, waiting for the right woman.
1 reason is the devil's temptations are more numerous, powerful & widespread. & people are falling for it. it took me close to 4 years to find a wife!!!!
 
I understand that longing. Waiting can be difficult and six years of choosing faithfulness is something to be respected. Don't lose hope.

There are women who truly love Jesus and are waiting faithfully too. Keep seeking Christ first and continue becoming the man God is calling you to be. Trust Him with the rest.

If marriage is part of God's plan for your life, His timing will be perfect. Be open to the possibility that the woman He leads you to could be anywhere in the world. God has a wonderful way of making what seems impossible possible.

I've always believed that the best love stories begin with a deep friendship. There is something truly beautiful about having a spouse who is also your best friend. And when you meet someone who shares your love for Jesus, don't be afraid to get to know her. Sometimes all it takes is the courage to take that first step.

Praying that God gives you peace, wisdom and encouragement as you continue to trust Him. God bless you.
 
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I understand that longing. Waiting can be difficult and six years of choosing faithfulness is something to be respected. Don't lose hope.

There are women who truly love Jesus and are waiting faithfully too. Keep seeking Christ first and continue becoming the man God is calling you to be. Trust Him with the rest.

If marriage is part of God's plan for your life, His timing will be perfect. Be open to the possibility that the woman He leads you to could be anywhere in the world. God has a wonderful way of making what seems impossible possible.

I've always believed that the best love stories begin with a deep friendship. There is something truly beautiful about having a spouse who is also your best friend. And when you meet someone who shares your love for Jesus, don't be afraid to get to know her. Sometimes all it takes is the courage to take that first step.

Praying that God gives you peace, wisdom and encouragement as you continue to trust Him. God bless you.
This is all "Bovarism", from Madame Bovary, a bored housewife cosntantly daydreaming about romantic encounters and adventures, which eventually led to her death and her family's downfall.

It may sounds disheartening, but if you have had no experience of any romantic relationship with deep emotional connection in your teens and twenties, by the time of your thirties you're too busy at work and your personal stuffs, and the most mellable period is gone, any "ideal" partner you wait for only exists in fictions and AI. The only relationship worth devoted in is your relationship with God through Jesus.

As long as you're not Michael Hosea, it's not your calling to take a woman for wife, godly or not. God doesn't owe anybody a partner.
 
This is all "Bovarism", from Madame Bovary, a bored housewife cosntantly daydreaming about romantic encounters and adventures, which eventually led to her death and her family's downfall.

It may sounds disheartening, but if you have had no experience of any romantic relationship with deep emotional connection in your teens and twenties, by the time of your thirties you're too busy at work and your personal stuffs, and the most mellable period is gone, any "ideal" partner you wait for only exists in fictions and AI. The only relationship worth devoted in is your relationship with God through Jesus.

As long as you're not Michael Hosea, it's not your calling to take a woman for wife, godly or not. God doesn't owe anybody a partner.
Uh... Did you even read the post to which you're replying? Or did you just see a few key words and fire off a reply?

SoulFaith said "If marriage is part of God's plan for your life..." SoulFaith did not say "Don't worry, God has someone special out there for you." But your reply indicates you believe SoulFaith said that second thing.
 
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Uh... Did you even read the post to which you're replying? Or did you just see a few key words and fire off a reply?

SoulFaith said "If marriage is part of God's plan for your life..." SoulFaith did not say "Don't worry, God has someone special out there for you." But your reply indicates you believe SoulFaith said that second thing.
Seems like the same thing to me, regarding "the woman He leads you to".
 
I understand that longing. Waiting can be difficult and six years of choosing faithfulness is something to be respected. Don't lose hope.

There are women who truly love Jesus and are waiting faithfully too. Keep seeking Christ first and continue becoming the man God is calling you to be. Trust Him with the rest.

If marriage is part of God's plan for your life, His timing will be perfect. Be open to the possibility that the woman He leads you to could be anywhere in the world. God has a wonderful way of making what seems impossible possible.

I've always believed that the best love stories begin with a deep friendship. There is something truly beautiful about having a spouse who is also your best friend. And when you meet someone who shares your love for Jesus, don't be afraid to get to know her. Sometimes all it takes is the courage to take that first step.

Praying that God gives you peace, wisdom and encouragement as you continue to trust Him. God bless you.
I appreciate your kind and encouraging words
 
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