I've noticed over the decades such a negative reaction to the idea of obedience which tends to stem from the OSAS crowd.
For sake of argument, let's take salvation off the table because I don't want to turn this into a salvation debate. I want the sole focus to be about obedience.
Why, is there such a rejection for obedience? Like, if you bring it up, people just get auto-defensive and start yelling about works. But what happened to not doing something you shouldn't do, because you literally just shouldn't do it?
If God is likened to the aspect of a Father, why do we grow up as kids following our parents, but when it comes to the Father, it's like.. "I don't have to follow the rules."
Throughout scripture from old testament to new, God has been the same. He HATES sin. The message for repentance is prevalent from start to finish in scripture. Hell, the tribulation period is literally due to sin and how abundant it is everywhere. So why the reaction? Why such a distinct defensive response to something that God wants/likes? Why such the overt rejection of it?
You raise a good question in my opinion. Do you know about intrinsic morality?
Intrinsic morality is the idea that certain actions possess moral quality
in themselves, independent of any command, statute, or external authority. On this view, acts like
justice,
mercy, or
cruelty are morally charged because of what they
are, not because someone declares them so. Moral obligation arises from the nature of persons and actions, meaning that some things are right to do even if no law requires them, and some things are wrong even if no law forbids them. Commands can reveal or reinforce these truths, but they do not create them.
God’s law includes both
intrinsic moral realities and
positive commands. Some commands express what is eternally and universally good—such as
loving one’s neighbor or
honoring God—truths that would remain morally binding even if never written down. Other commands are
positive, meaning their moral force comes from God’s authoritative will rather than from the nature of the act itself—such as dietary laws, ritual boundaries, or specific covenantal instructions. God’s law therefore operates on two levels: it reveals what is intrinsically right, and it establishes additional obligations grounded in His authority.
Christians often flatten these two categories, treating all commands as if they were equally intrinsic or equally positive, and this makes arguments about obedience difficult to sort out. When intrinsic morality and positive command are collapsed into a single category, people lose the ability to distinguish between what is eternally right and what is right because God has temporarily or covenantally required it. This leads to confusion about
moral responsibility, debates over whether disobedience reflects a failure of character or simply a violation of authority, and disagreements about how to apply Scripture across covenants. Without the distinction, conversations about obedience become tangled because the underlying moral structure has been blurred.