Courtship?

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I recommend the direct method. Approach someone you’re attracted to and ask, ‘“how can I become romantically involved”
Romance is very personal feeling. If a girl and a boy develops friendship, they really enjoy spending time together, they think about each other often, they want to hold each other s hand or arm when walking together, I would say that's starting romance.
 
I will give you 12 hours to answer and I will check this thread at 9:30pm tonight

I feel it is only right to give you a fair warning. It is a steep, slippery slope and you will most assuredly fall very hard and fast in love with me. Although I can guarantee is a soft landing, I have strong arms and gentle hands.

I will give you until 9:30pm to finalize your decision. I wont disclose my tactics to the public though, they would be far too dangerous if they fell into the wrong hands.
 
Well, it's now 6:13pm and I've already had dinner, so what must I do to become 'romantically involved'?
 
hmm it seems I must climb a mountain.

Where I don't know, unless...it is the steepest Street in Dunedin. Oh but Levib said slippery. So it must be cold outside, and icy and wet.
But wait, didn't the Baby it's Cold Outside guy want his intended to betrothed lady to stay Indoors?

What was the small activity they did? Sing a duet? Smoke a cigarette? Have a hot chocolate?
 
Or...waity Katy was doing a catwalk down the runway in her see-through skirt. Maybe that's what I should do! A fashion parade!

This will surely catch the eyes of my intended fiance.

My small activity would be...sewing my see-through skirt. But isn't that a little risque? Shouldn't I be knitting socks so we can go to the Sock hop inside a school gym?
 
Levib and @Lanolin sitting in a tree. C - ou - r - t - i - n - g. First comes Love, then comes marriage, then comes little Lanolins.
 
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For us on this side of the globe, Courtship is two people who intend to get married, they see a pastor who accompanies them for six months, they discuss all that needs to be discuss and their differences, they do premarital check ups. During this time they discuss, finances, sex, quarrels, priorities, children or no children, role of partners, God's position in a home.
If the pastor finds out during their discussions that they do not have same values he advices them to let go.
I would say it's a Christian way to do date.
 
For us on this side of the globe, Courtship is two people who intend to get married, they see a pastor who accompanies them for six months, they discuss all that needs to be discuss and their differences, they do premarital check ups. During this time they discuss, finances, sex, quarrels, priorities, children or no children, role of partners, God's position in a home.
If the pastor finds out during their discussions that they do not have same values he advices them to let go.
I would say it's a Christian way to do date.
This sounds very boring like a job interview to me.
 
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I am seriously thinking that some people here do not even know what romance is. Or how to do it.

You don't just talk someone into marrying you. You don't just wait around. What do you do to SHOW you care?
Give them a chance and see Romance, I am certain that if you take away the numbness from people's hearts they will show "top tier, Christ centered, Biblically accurate" Romance. Lano dear give the guy in your DM a foothold and see😁
 
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Levib and @Lanolin sitting in a tree. C - ou - r - t - i - n - g. First comes Love, then comes marriage, then comes little Lanolins.
Wait a minute, I thought we were meant to be climbing mountains, not sitting in trees.

Well if we are to sit in a tree, a Christmas tree is a good one. But you can only find them in my country. We call them 'Pohutakawa'
 
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Give them a chance and see Romance, I am certain that if you take away the numbness from people's hearts they will show "top tier, Christ centered, Biblically accurate" Romance. Lano dear give the guy in your DM a foothold and see😁
Only @RoboOp DMs me. Asking for money. Which I don't have as I don't deal in cryptocurrency.
 
I mean its a legitimate cause though, he wants to build the CC Singles App.
But I already told him and everyone in public that I don't do dating apps.

He should have called it the CC Courting App.