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Oh ok

But how can you prefer a thin, fat, tall, short person without step kids? So a grey medium sized person who never had any kids?
 
Are you biblically single Churchgoer? You never been married and don't have any kids? Or you are widow and no kids.
 
Are you also...Jewish?

As far as I know, King Xerxes had two wives, and I don't think he divorced his first wife for any good reason before he married Hadassah/Esther. And that was in the Bible.
 
Are you also...Jewish?

As far as I know, King Xerxes had two wives, and I don't think he divorced his first wife for any good reason before he married Hadassah/Esther. And that was in the Bible.
When I say biblical rule, I meant approved by God.
David killed a man , that is in Bible too. But that sin is not approved by God.
 
Yes, I am.
Widow with adult kid.
Is it ok to remarry with an adult kid so your new partner would be a step parent, or do you not consider them to be the parent of your adult kid? I mean is that biblical?
I am sorry for your loss.

What if you met a fellow widower with an adult kid like yourself, that was also a believer, would you go out with them? Would it be like the Brady Bunch?
 
When I say biblical rule, I meant approved by God.
David killed a man , that is in Bible too. But that sin is not approved by God.
But he was forgiven and married Bathsheba and their child, Solomon, became King. So...?
Also Jesus had some whores in his lineage. Though maybe they don't count?
 
Esther was definitely approved by God because she stood for her people and spoke to her husband defending them. She could not have done this if she wasn't his wife. I did feel sorry for Vashti though.

It's not said if she ever had children.
 
It wasn't that David killed a man, he had someone kill Uriah for him.
David also killed a giant and many philistines and cut off their foreskins to win his first wife, Michal.

It was adultery that was disapproved of, because Bathsheba already belonged to Uriah.
 
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Esther was definitely approved by God because she stood for her people and spoke to her husband defending them. She could not have done this if she wasn't his wife. I did feel sorry for Vashti though.

It's not said if she ever had children.

I was always a bit of a Vashti sympathizer as well. 🙏🏼

I'm not saying that what she did was right, I was just sad that she couldn't say no to being put on display.

I wouldn't like that at all.
 
David's punishment was his first child with Bathsheba only lived for 7 days. And God killed his son. (by illness)
 
I was always a bit of a Vashti sympathizer as well. 🙏🏼

I'm not saying that what she did was right, I was just sad that she couldn't say no to being put on display.

I wouldn't like that at all.
I wonder what Esther did to make herself 'pass' or disguise her looks so people/her husband wouldn't think she was Jewish. Straightened her hair? Had nose surgery? Put on a non-Jewish accent?
 
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But he was forgiven and married Bathsheba and their child, Solomon, became King. So...?
Also Jesus had some whores in his lineage. Though maybe they don't count?
True.
So it is up to believers to obey or disobey God's rules.
David lost a baby, his son wanted to kill him, his son slept with one of his wife in public, his kingdom very soon got taken....
Consequences....
 
hmm nobody knows any rules?

Like I don't know, if you go out to dinner or movies, the one that asks for company needs to pay for the other one? You have to kiss them on the cheek to say thank you?

I have often wondered, why it's expected that women want to be stay-at-home-wives, even if they don't have any children, and the husband to work 40 hours a week at least to pay for house and food and bills etc, while the wife cleans and cooks and looks pretty.

What if it's reversed and its the wife who wants to work, pay for everything while the husband stays at home, cooks and cleans and looks handsome, like a stay-at-home-husband?

Or is that wrong, or breaking the rules? In what fantasy land do married couples do this?
my older brother stopped working at 42 because he & his wife decided that cuz her salary was high, he would stay home & raise the kids. i will always think that that was the wrong choice especially since he was very very smart. he graduated 5th in his class & never studied!!! he never really applied himself in the workforce.
 
my older brother stopped working at 42 because he & his wife decided that cuz her salary was high, he would stay home & raise the kids. i will always think that that was the wrong choice especially since he was very very smart. he graduated 5th in his class & never studied!!! he never really applied himself in the workforce.
Well someone needs to raise the kids if they don't have a granny/nanny to help them.
Do you reckon his wife ought to have given up her job and your brother got a better one? Or lived on a lower income? IDK it's hard to judge what others do, but since they both agreed on that arrangement it was right for them.
 
I wonder what Esther did to make herself 'pass' or disguise her looks so people/her husband wouldn't think she was Jewish. Straightened her hair? Had nose surgery? Put on a non-Jewish accent?
Persian and Jewish share same family roots, look alike.
 
Maybe she just dressed differently, like Persians have different style of clothes to Jewish women.