Why do bad things happen to good people?
The New Testament fully addresses this question. It defines what a "good person" is. We are then given an example in a parable by the Lord. Finally, we can look at the life of Paul in Acts and address this.
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What is a good person?
Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that
love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
If you look at this verse it is clearly saying that nothing that happens to a person that fulfills this criteria will work out for bad. It may appear bad, but it will work together for good. In the final analysis it will not be something bad, it will be something that worked together for good. Now their are two criteria and we can use this as the definition of a "good person".
A. They love God
and
B. They are called according to purpose.
The following examples given by the Lord and lived out by Paul will explain in detail what those two criteria are.
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What did Jesus Teach?
In the parable of the good samaritan he gave us an example of a "good person" calling the Samaritan a good Samaritan. So then, let's examine these two criteria.
A. How do we know that this Samaritan loved God?
1 John 4:20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
A. In that story of the good Samaritan we see a priest and a Levite, both of whom claim they love God but don't love their brother who has fallen among thieves. They are the liars in this parable. The Good Samaritan loved his brother, that is the point of the parable, it answers the question who is my brother that I should love him, so from his behavior we can see that the Good Samaritan loves God even without him saying that while those who say they love God are liars.
B. Is he called according to purpose? Yes, we have a purpose in life, to help those that we can help. Jesus told the man to "go and do likewise" that is a commission he was given. What you will notice is people who were saved out of street gangs wind up having the gospel to people in street gangs. People who were saved out of prison have a prison ministry. You could argue that the guy who was in the street gang, that was bad things happening to him. But it has worked out for good because now that he is saved the Lord is working through him to minister to others in the same situation. Having experienced the "bad things" has helped him to have empathy for others.
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What did we see in Paul's life that explains this?
In the book of Acts Paul is arrested, put in prison, even though there are no charges concerning any laws that Rome has that he broke. He is forced to appeal to Caesar because they are trying to kill him. While sailing to Rome they are shipwrecked and the entire boat is destroyed. Finally he is bitten by a poisonous viper.
These are things that happen to everyone, Paul is not the first person to be falsely accused of a crime, nor is he the first person to be put into prison for a crime he didn't commit. He is also not the only person to go through a shipwreck, everyone on that ship went through the same experience. Not only so but he is not the only person to get bitten by a poisonous snake, that happens every year. So the first principle is this:
Ecclesiastes 9:2 All things come alike to all: there is one event to the righteous, and to the wicked; to the good and to the clean, and to the unclean; to him that sacrificeth, and to him that sacrificeth not: as is the good, so is the sinner; and he that sweareth, as he that feareth an oath.
Our salvation doesn't keep us from experiencing things that others experience, rather our getting saved enables us to be a conqueror in all these things.
So then how did these things which happened to Paul work out for good?
1. Paul wrote his prison epistles while in prison.
- Ephesians: Focuses on the identity of the Church as the body of Christ and God's eternal plan to unite all things in Jesus.
- Philippians: Emphasizes spiritual joy, humility, and steadfastness in the face of suffering and anxiety.
- Colossians: Proclaims the supreme lordship and absolute sufficiency of Christ over all creation against false teachings.
- Philemon: Acts as a personal appeal for forgiveness and Christian brotherhood regarding a runaway slave named Onesimus.
The church needed those epistles and by being put in prison God stopped his missionary work, cleared his calendar of speaking engagements, and allowed him to focus on writing these letters.
2. Paul told the people on the ship not to sail saying it would result in loss. They didn't listen to him. But he didn't respond with "ha, you should have listened to me, now you have got what you deserve". No, he said "You should have listened to me, but don't worry, I have been praying for you and God has given me everyone on this ship, none of you will die but the ship will be destroyed because you didn't listen." Because of the shipwreck everyone on that ship realized they owed their life to Paul who had prayed for them.
3. The snake biting Paul led the people on the island to bring him their sick, he prayed for them and they were healed. Because of that they gave the people another ship and filled it with stuff. So not only do these people owe Paul their lives, they also owe him for restoring their boat and everything they lost.
The bad things that happened to Paul worked out for good because he was called according to purpose. He was an apostle going about establishing churches. Putting him in prison stopped him from doing that but then he wrote letters that have been building up the church for 2,000 years.
Imagine you are going to appear before Caesar who more than likely will be happy to kill Paul if he is bribed or if it makes his life easier with the Jews. But now Paul arrives in Rome with 200+ people all willing to testify that Paul saved their lives! Also, even though they tried to keep Paul from raising up churches what about the people on that island, don't you think the people were not only healed but also raised up churches? What about the 200+ on that ship, do you think they might have gotten saved? What about those in Rome and Italy?