Over 50 and never married

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My question is why are men my age so likely to want to meet and marry a woman 20 or more years younger than they are? Don't they know that when she is his current age there will be a HUGE difference in his appearance. Will she still be happy being married to a 70 year old when she is 50? I doubt it.
 
I know its wrong to judge people but when I see a couple with a big age gap I think there goes a relationship based on sex and money.
 
What? That I shouldnt judge people or that relationships with a big age gap are based on sex and money?
 
My question is why are men my age so likely to want to meet and marry a woman 20 or more years younger than they are? Don't they know that when she is his current age there will be a HUGE difference in his appearance. Will she still be happy being married to a 70 year old when she is 50? I doubt it.

I guess the question should be directed to cougars too, and the answer would probably be the same.
 
My question is why are men my age so likely to want to meet and marry a woman 20 or more years younger than they are? Don't they know that when she is his current age there will be a HUGE difference in his appearance. Will she still be happy being married to a 70 year old when she is 50? I doubt it.

I'm dated someone who is 53 and I'm 26. He was really young at heart and aged really well. I was really comfortable with him.
 
Probably because they know most likely in 5-10 years they won't still be together, so who cares who will be how old in 20 years? They're having their fun now and thats all they're focused on.
 
I ask and ask and ask but never get date. Of course I like idea of family, so maybe a little younger woman still have chance at having kids? But really shocked how many women in 40's say right up front they will not date men in their 40's, only interested in 50+, it is not so much that men are looking for hot young women as it is that women want father replacement.