Scott what causes your "will" to repent and accept God?
Grace, God placing in you a new heart capable of repenting? God replacing that heart of Stone?
Before God did that you had no "will" to chose Him, you were DEAD in your trespasses, Enslaved by your sin.
You did not free yourself by your own "will" GOD gave you that will and drew you to Him.
to say "God's grace is not irresistible." is slander against GOD and His Holy revealed words.
Synergism is a water down version of works salvation. it teaches people are not saved by grace alone but by some choose made by men and not by the will of GOD through the grace of GOD.
Romans 11:5-7
New King James Version (NKJV)
5 Even so then, at this present time there is a remnant according to the election of grace. 6 And if by grace, then it is no longer of works; otherwise grace is no longer grace.[a] But if it is of works, it is no longer grace; otherwise work is no longer work.
My statement is just a rephrasing of what synergist believe because they think they actually have a part in their own salvation when it is only GOD's work and God's glory alone.
If God wills it, then who are men that they are able to oppose the will of God?
why did Jesus pray only for His disciples and not the whole world?
John 17
9 “I pray for them. I do not pray for the world but for those whom You have given Me, for they are Yours.