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K
You chose to marry her for a reason. I suggest really praying for her and the situation you are in.
I know it's hard to show someone you them, especially when you are feeling the way you have described but showing her love will help. I don't know why you have separated from her, but the marriage bond you have made with her shouldn't be broken unless unfaithfulness is involved or she is leaving you.
Try not to do anything out of anger or hurt, especially so quickly. Seek God and ask him for help.
I know it's hard to show someone you them, especially when you are feeling the way you have described but showing her love will help. I don't know why you have separated from her, but the marriage bond you have made with her shouldn't be broken unless unfaithfulness is involved or she is leaving you.
Try not to do anything out of anger or hurt, especially so quickly. Seek God and ask him for help.
AC/DC's 'Dirty Deeds' comes to mind:
You got a lady and you want her gone
But you ain't got the guts
She keeps naggin' at you night 'n' day
Enough to drive you nuts
Pick up the phone, leave her alone
It's time you made a stand
For a fee, I'm happy to be
Your back door man
Not that I would know who AC/DC are or would ever listen to them of course *smiles a cheesy greasy self righteous smile*
On a more serious note, you're the man. So man up. Take up your God given spiritual authority and close in on the spiritual issue involved and then put it to the sword. Examine yourself and look for EVERY possible area that you could be at fault, then, and ONLY then start to look for issues elsewhere. Be open and honest with your partner, for that is what she is. Your partner. Make your expectations of yourself and her clear to each other. Do so prayerfully. Then, be the man you're called to be. Tough enough to bring the situation to order. Keep your duty foremost in mind, ''Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness'' ''Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself for her''. Armed with weapons that are divine in power to demolish strongholds and exercising them with righteous wisdom, you will see results.
Keep us posted on your quest.
You got a lady and you want her gone
But you ain't got the guts
She keeps naggin' at you night 'n' day
Enough to drive you nuts
Pick up the phone, leave her alone
It's time you made a stand
For a fee, I'm happy to be
Your back door man
Not that I would know who AC/DC are or would ever listen to them of course *smiles a cheesy greasy self righteous smile*
On a more serious note, you're the man. So man up. Take up your God given spiritual authority and close in on the spiritual issue involved and then put it to the sword. Examine yourself and look for EVERY possible area that you could be at fault, then, and ONLY then start to look for issues elsewhere. Be open and honest with your partner, for that is what she is. Your partner. Make your expectations of yourself and her clear to each other. Do so prayerfully. Then, be the man you're called to be. Tough enough to bring the situation to order. Keep your duty foremost in mind, ''Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness'' ''Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself for her''. Armed with weapons that are divine in power to demolish strongholds and exercising them with righteous wisdom, you will see results.
Keep us posted on your quest.
J
oh i loved her. she cussed me out, stole my property, gave my clothes away and lied to friends on me...and thats only the tip! shes EXTREMLY disrespectful to me, and all she does when i ASK to talk is hang up and say ''im not having this discussion'' and hangs up! then changes her number! all over money and my belief in the bible. im messianic
L
Have you tried marriage counseling, Judebee? Not with a pastor, but with a professional Christian marital counselor. They can be extremely helpful at getting to the heart of the matter and helping each spouse see the other's perspective in order to work through their issues.
In addition to this suggestion, I echo Cheekygrin's sound advice.
In addition to this suggestion, I echo Cheekygrin's sound advice.
Actually, the Bible says that we are allowed to get a divorce if our spouse has committed fornication (Matthew 5:32). Your post came across as being rather judgmental, Rus Lady....I'm sure that you didn't mean it that way, but it appear that way. It's quite possible to forgive someone yet not want to stay married to them. I will be the first to admit that we don't know all the details, though. I'm not taking sides; just making an observation.
To Judebee: I think you will get an abundance of peace if you seek Jesus as fervently as you can....if you worry too much about "getting out with your hands clean", you may miss everything He wants you to see in this situation
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To Judebee: I think you will get an abundance of peace if you seek Jesus as fervently as you can....if you worry too much about "getting out with your hands clean", you may miss everything He wants you to see in this situation
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R
as i said before i believe that only God knows whats really going on . my point of view is that I dont understand how on earth you can call the one you once loved with any rude names ( what ever she did ) I am not trying to judge or anything that not my right to do so . Usually it takes two people when things goes wrong , not knowing the reasons its hard to say , but usually two people that making things going this or that way .... I might be wrong , but anyways ... we dont know her reasons why she act the way she does , but it seems like she is trying to prove something by such way of acting , thats all what i can say .