Last nice thing someone told me (that I remember): I was talking about how despite never having seen it modeled, disciplining, teaching, understanding, and otherwise raising children just comes naturally to me. She said: "its a gift.". I that would make sense since Ive never raised kids, but my own mother and other seasoned parents ask me for parenting advice.
Last nice thing I told someone: my friend has been getting all kinds of messages about her feminine Identity. "i couldnt see you eating cupcakes. You're so not girly." "oh you have lots of curves!"--- which translated "you are fat". Basically, i got to explain to her what he meant. My friend is strong, aggressive, and confortable with herself. He thinks being girly means being a passive pushover who needs a man to screw in her lightbulb. I told her she is probably the girliest person i know. She wants everything in hot pink, is fascinares with glitter, wears pumps whenever she gets a chance; but she's also discerning, intuitive, and introspective. I call her my bodyguard.