Hi Jullianna,
I've been thinking on this, and why do you think that this will be the case? With myself I think that I have too high expectations, will the person stand out head and shoulders above the rest or is this just an expectation that society puts on us?
As I'm sure you know marriage isn't perfect, but I wonder if, at least personally, I have idolised the person I want to marry in my head so that no one can match the standard I have in my head and no relationship would ever meet the hopes I have? As such if I am expecting someone to be miles ahead of anyone else I would dismiss a perfectly good and perfect match for myself?
As far as feelings go, I haven't felt anything for with the possible exception of one lovely girl I met recently, nothing came of it though and I was very unsure about it all.
I like what has been said about the life direction, going in the same place, it is still something I am thinking through I think, especially as my life seems to have so many open paths at the moment.
One of my friends has said (and I think that this has happened with him) that you don't always get all gooey eyed over each other immediately, but sometimes you just learn to enjoy the persons company. (This guy is married by the way) How does this sound to you? Is this a more reasonable expectation or...?
Thoughts?
Stuey