Skeptical about family

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Hello everyone, I'am here to vent about mix feelings I have been having. Well I a college student and my parents move far away so there was no way I could get to school ,so after the drama with friends and moving around everyone was acting the same and weird. For example I would ask my friends if I could post there for a while for school and they said yes so, after a couple a days they all of assudden change their mind. Another incident with a this guy I dated mom she said I could stay there and then after a while she inadvertly change her mind. (Stunned Iam) and I'm wondering why everyone is changing their minds. So finally I end up having to stay with my "Grandma" Guess who lives there my cousin ugh! I totally forgave her ,but she will not quit. Well I found out that my EVIL cousin hates my guts. As I was doing my hair in the bathroom she walks by repeatedly and laughs sooo evil I'm like omg in my head I was even scared to go to sleep because something is wrong with her and she will try to kill me. SCARY! So she laughs and listen to some weird rap music and as she walk pass she said this B--iii---t-ch slowly it was indirect. Her mom hates my mom... They spread rumors about us both and nopw our friends look at us like were the darn monster Iam fed up i dont trust my family at all they would plot to kill me I pra every night my mind is going insane I want to know what can I do to stop their plan r keep them away from me. P.s I think they told my friends to turn me down so I would end up there. My precious self I want out ...I barely trust my mom it seems like she would do anything to gain their love I dont know what to do. To get away from there instantly and I cant tell the police without proff so everyday I just write certain things so if they do end up killing me the police would know who to blame... HELP
 
If you seriously think they're trying to kill you, do whatever you have to to find another place to stay. Meanwhile, pray for God's protection. Its the best protection in the universe. Nothing can harm you or come against you unless God allows it. You can pray that their hearts are changed too.

God bless.
 
Don't believe everything your suspicions tell you. Your mind is not infallible, what you have inside of it many times will not be the truth. It happens many times that our minds lie to us or, we receive lies that come directly from the devil. The Devil is the Father of Lies, and he will lie to us in order to make us fall.

Stop judging your neighbors - you don't know what is going on with them, you're just being suspicious, they might not even be thinking about you. Stop trusting in your own heart, for this is to make your own mind into God (an idol). Lastly, if they really do want to kill you, just think of the Hell that awaits them and the condemnation, this will keep you from thinking evilly about them because you don't want them to go to hell do you?

Try to generate positive thoughts, think about the love of Jesus. Pray to your guardian angel and trust that God will protect you through him.


I noticed that you called your cousin "EVIL", NO, no, no, this is why you are having this whole dilemma. You are judging your cousin so harshly that you are condemning your own self. You must know that when Jesus said, "With the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you." (Matthew 7:2) he was not talking about GOD judging us... He was talking about US judging; the situations, people, or anything in general. ACCORDING TO HOW WE JUDGE THESE THINGS, WE SHALL RECEIVE THE JUDGMENT BACK INTO OUR OWN SELVES. That is what Christ meant when he said, "with the same measure you use it will be measured back to you" and, "judge not, that ye be not judged." Because we shall receive it back into our own selves... sometimes like knives and arrows.
 
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sprinkles24 said:
Hello everyone, I'am here to vent about mix feelings I have been having. Well I a college student and my parents move far away so there was no way I could get to school ,so after the drama with friends and moving around everyone was acting the same and weird. For example I would ask my friends if I could post there for a while for school and they said yes so, after a couple a days they all of assudden change their mind. Another incident with a this guy I dated mom she said I could stay there and then after a while she inadvertly change her mind. (Stunned Iam) and I'm wondering why everyone is changing their minds. So finally I end up having to stay with my "Grandma" Guess who lives there my cousin ugh! I totally forgave her ,but she will not quit. Well I found out that my EVIL cousin hates my guts. As I was doing my hair in the bathroom she walks by repeatedly and laughs sooo evil I'm like omg in my head I was even scared to go to sleep because something is wrong with her and she will try to kill me. SCARY! So she laughs and listen to some weird rap music and as she walk pass she said this B--iii---t-ch slowly it was indirect. Her mom hates my mom... They spread rumors about us both and nopw our friends look at us like were the darn monster Iam fed up i dont trust my family at all they would plot to kill me I pra every night my mind is going insane I want to know what can I do to stop their plan r keep them away from me. P.s I think they told my friends to turn me down so I would end up there. My precious self I want out ...I barely trust my mom it seems like she would do anything to gain their love I dont know what to do. To get away from there instantly and I cant tell the police without proff so everyday I just write certain things so if they do end up killing me the police would know who to blame... HELP
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Could you elaborate about the part in blue? I'm not sure what you mean.
 
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Could you elaborate about the part in blue? I'm not sure what you mean.
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lol the part in the blue means that she will not stop atagonizing me. For instance today I had to leave my gmas house because my cousin is selfish she talks about me to my other cousins and they all just sit and talk in the living room while im sitting on the outside lookin silly and no 1 bother to say anything they just walk over me and kept it pushing how rude and selfish is she. I dont know what to think about them anymore Im just so over everyone and please pray for me i will also pray for myself.... :)
 
If you truley believe that you are in danger, then you need to leave. Contact a woman's shelter. Let them know you feel threaten and feel you have no where to go, specifically because you feel as if your cousin has tried to alienate you from your friends. As for your cousin, she may hate you, and based on what your saying, I would not be surprised if she was angered with you or jealous. However, unless she has some type of phsycotic illness, I'm not sure that she would actually try to kill you. Do you know of anything in the past where you might have possibly inadvertently triggered her anger? Understand, I'm not blaming you for your situation, but there is a possiblity she was angered with you over something, and trying to make amends can go along way. Then again, it's also possible that she feels your hatred for her, and is playing on it. Have you talked with your grandmother about this?
 
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if shes trying to kill you report it to authority & get out of that house! as far as friends they come & go God will give you the people you need!
 
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If you truley believe that you are in danger, then you need to leave. Contact a woman's shelter. Let them know you feel threaten and feel you have no where to go, specifically because you feel as if your cousin has tried to alienate you from your friends. As for your cousin, she may hate you, and based on what your saying, I would not be surprised if she was angered with you or jealous. However, unless she has some type of phsycotic illness, I'm not sure that she would actually try to kill you. Do you know of anything in the past where you might have possibly inadvertently triggered her anger? Understand, I'm not blaming you for your situation, but there is a possiblity she was angered with you over something, and trying to make amends can go along way. Then again, it's also possible that she feels your hatred for her, and is playing on it. Have you talked with your grandmother about this?
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Yes my gmas sat us both down and we talked she said shes holding grudges against me because when we were young I put her in danger and im like wow how do u hld grudges for 10 years wre grown now and it wasnt because i out her in danger it was because I was the only child and i always got everything i wanted. I know for a fact because now that she has a job and I dont have one she always comes in the house saying she got paid r talks about what she got new and my gmas always takes her side. Shes like one of those kids who acts innocent in front of the fam but is evil towards me when not in site of them. Another fact, when her mom moved outta state the first thing she said to my mom was that people where she now live does not compete with material objects and she ask y mom what kinda shampoo i use weird.. So I know for a fact all of this is revenge. They will not stop they're going to keep going until they feel satisfied. So i pray everyday fror my protection.
 
So move out, get a job and support yourself. You do not need these people in your life even if they are family. Pray for them and forgive them in your heart but you have to protect yourself. Seek counseling for yourself so you can wrap your head around any wrong doing you participate in and move on with your life. You are a child of God and in your heart you have everything you need to take care of yourself. I am sure there are grants and student loans you can get to see you through while your in school. Lots of kids do it alone and manage just fine. You will find new friends that accept you and support you in the way you need and want. Maybe its time for you to move to another state far far away from all the family drama. Sounds like you need a new start.
 
Hi Sprinkles. I'm sorry we are meeting under these circumstances.
In essence, reading your post, I feel it is your family that have the problem but you have the solution.
You have to find a place of your own, even as a stop-gap to finding a place where you are happier.
This will be but the first piece in the jigsaw & with your God's guidance & help the other pieces will come to complete the picture.
Prayers are with you.
J+
 
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