Honestly, as much as I hate what pornography does to people, it is an unenforceable, unconstitutional vague mess of a law. That's what I think about it.
Honestly, it seems like a lot of people have focused on how pornography affects [christian]families. I would much rather see laws intended to protect young women from getting sucked into the porn industry. Maybe raising the age to 21+? Maybe outlawing recordings of specific physical acts (heck, a lot of porn is just plain brutal) that aren't actually sexual in nature from being distributed. It certainly would leave people free to do it if they desired, or even watch it in person. But the means of making loads of money through distribution via the internet and mail ordering would be utterly devastated.
Just my thoughts...
Why is it that if I produce a film that depicts a man who kills his wife, it only gets an R rating, or maybe even PG-13, but if I produce a film that depicts a man who makes love to his wife after they're married, it gets an X? What does that say about our society, that we allow teenagers to witness violence, and are more afraid to show sex, even within the constructs of love and marriage? Do you think perhaps sex would not devolve into porn so much if it weren't so taboo?
Again, just thinking out loud here.
Interesting ideas. Since battery is already illegal, it seems to me that anything that involves beating should likewise be illegal.
Battery is violence towards an non-consenting victim.
S&M involves two consenting adults that know what they are doing.
While there is porn that does contain the former (which should be just as illegal as distributing any other filmed crime with non-consenting actors) S&M and battery are not one in the same, and is in fact a delicate topic that one should research and fully understand before forming an opinion on it.
If you distort both activities to view them as forms of communication, violence, while no more or less morally shady than illicit sex, is used far more often in the public eye. In most cultures that is.
You are much more likely to see two men fighting on the street than a man and woman disrobing outside the nearest Burger King. Neither are desirable, of course, but one is far more intimate than the other.
Yes, but hugs and kisses are not inherently sexual.
Why do you think images of violence are considered less taboo?
I don't know. I can say that this is a particularly American phenomenon. At least in my experience, other cultures do not seem to be as "uptight" about sex, and conversely as non-challant (sp?) about violence. Not sure what that says about us as a culture / society. Maybe some sociologist can offer an insight?
Of this, I am actually quite thankful. My body can take far more than my mind and my heart. The scars from deviant sex are far worse than deviant violence. Granted there are exceptions to this; intra-family violence for example. But comparing a sexual act to a roughly violent act, the scars resulting from the sexual act are far greater.
The body is far more resilient than the heart.
Without getting into too much detail, lets just suffice it to say that I can relate to segments of the S&M world. I would never engage in it myself, but I can understand the appeal of it. That said, I wasn't specifically referring to S&M, but other things; things which even pornographers have called appalling. Things which are strictly about humiliation.
Either way, raising the age requirements to 21 seems to be a very feasible and enforceable way of protecting young women. Then again, maybe it would lead more to prostitution, which would be a true tragedy.![]()