Should a robber be able to plead innocent? "You Honor, she didn't have to give me the money. She chose to do so."
Never mind the gun pointed at his victim's head?
When one's soul is held for ransom, is the choice truly free?
Poor analogy.
In your analogy, we are the money, not the one with the gun to our head. But money can't choose, so your whole analogy doesn't really work to begin with.