Should i let him go? Mother is against us, but we like eacher?

[DreamGirl19]

There's this guy I like: and I got the feeling he liked me too: He came up to me shy, stood by the window, and asked me if I like the small group: then he poured me my mustard: He then asked me if i was going to the retreat: and when i got to the retreat, he sat next to me at lunch, and he mentioned my " wax creations" on FB that i never showed him: then he kept bumping my leg 3 times saying he was "sorry" After that, we got closer: he took me home, he comes to our table giving us his chocolate out of nowhere, and he cared about my cold pizzia: He stood by the door, and my mother says he was eyeing me head to toe when I was heading the exit door: And we texted 21 times and I texted him " have a good friday" and he said " you too Sarah" and he never said my name before in a text: at easter, when i didn't get a chance to say happy easter to him, i texted him saying happy easter and he says U too: and at lunch, he sat next to me but one seat away, and with my friends: but we didn't say a word to each other: and, he helped me fix my laptop wireless for 2 days threw text, and he said in the end: " yw buddy. yw" We always make lot's of eye contact with each other: Like when i went into someone's office, and he was there, he was stareing at me, and we stared at each other for 60 seconds: and he was stretching his arms when he was looking at me: And, the last time i saw him, he sat right behind me at lunch, and when i got up, we made eye contact, and later, he got up and sat at a table in front of me, so now he can see my face: and when i got up to put my plate in the trash, i saw someone and i said hi to her, and when i turned to the left, he was at a ANOTHER TABLE near me where i was standing :0 And when he walked past me, he said " hi" when i said hi to him 2 hours ago... My mother is against us: She's misjudge him, and now she's driving us apart where now I can't even see him, cause she forbids me to go to that place where he is: But I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too: and, for 2 days I cried: and I woke up with tears in my eyes: And, I don't know whether i should give him up, since where not going back there, or still keep texting him even though he's not going to see me in person anymore: I don't want to annoy him, by keep texting him every week, but i don't want to loose him either And it's even more difficult when i see him on FB: Since i wont be going there, i can't talk to him on fb cause when he know's im going to be there anymore, there's no point talking to him on FB or text if he's not going to see me in person :,( And I dont know what kind of realtionship were going to have by his phone: But the thing about him, all he says to me in text is " You too" and he said that like 6 times: and when i texted him today saying " have a good day" he replies " you too" So: Should i not text him anymore and let him go, or should i fight for my love and keep texting him, and try to build a relationship threw his phone? Is he worth it? does it seem like he likes me too?

 

[PrayerWithChrist]

Matthew 7:1-2 “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.

I think this is the best place to start! You said quote “My mother is against us: She's misjudge him, and now she's driving us apart where now I can't even see him, cause she forbids me to go to that place where he is.”

Has your mother explained why she does not want you to be with him? If she not giving well reasons then that’s really bad. The important thing is how you feel right now about this guy he seems to be very special to you. I having a feeling from what you have written that he does like you he seems to have gone out of his way lot for you not many guys will do this unless they like someone.

The really important thing is does that guy have a relationship with Jesus Christ? Is he a man of prayer, reading the Holy Scriptures, mature in the Lord having a fire to share the good news to others? Goes to church on a regular basis, Tries to be a good, honest, and sincere as well as respectful person. These are important things to have in a Christian relationship.

You said quote “So: Should I not text him anymore and let him go, or should I fight for my love and keep texting him, and try to build a relationship threw his phone? Is he worth it? Does it seem like he likes me too?” My answer is this if he has more than three of these qualities then he is worth it you should not let him go! But fight the good fight and try and build a relationship with this person.

2 Chronicles 15:7 But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded.”You should have a chat to your mother about how you feel. You must prayer very hard but anything in asked in the father name will be answered. John 14:14 “If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.”

God Bless You.

 

[OFM]

I agree keep relationships Christ Centered and follow Scripture and Prayerfull PRayer And Spiritual Direction

 

[DreamGirl19]

Matthew 7:1-2 “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.

I think this is the best place to start! You said quote “My mother is against us: She's misjudge him, and now she's driving us apart where now I can't even see him, cause she forbids me to go to that place where he is.”

Has your mother explained why she does not want you to be with him? If she not giving well reasons then that’s really bad. The important thing is how you feel right now about this guy he seems to be very special to you. I having a feeling from what you have written that he does like you he seems to have gone out of his way lot for you not many guys will do this unless they like someone.

The really important thing is does that guy have a relationship with Jesus Christ? Is he a man of prayer, reading the Holy Scriptures, mature in the Lord having a fire to share the good news to others? Goes to church on a regular basis, Tries to be a good, honest, and sincere as well as respectful person. These are important things to have in a Christian relationship.

You said quote “So: Should I not text him anymore and let him go, or should I fight for my love and keep texting him, and try to build a relationship threw his phone? Is he worth it? Does it seem like he likes me too?” My answer is this if he has more than three of these qualities then he is worth it you should not let him go! But fight the good fight and try and build a relationship with this person.

2 Chronicles 15:7 But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded.”You should have a chat to your mother about how you feel. You must prayer very hard but anything in asked in the father name will be answered. John 14:14 “If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.”

God Bless You.

God Bless you too! But your post got me thinking, and it was anointed: But, i just have one question: What do you mean when you said quote " he seems to have gone out of his way lot for you not many guys will do this unless they like someone." what do you mean by that?

 

[DreamGirl19]

I agree keep relationships Christ Centered and follow Scripture and Prayerfull PRayer And Spiritual Direction

Thanks for your advice Much appreciated

 

[DreamGirl19]

I still like to hear more posts if there is any!

 

[shirley]

i think if this a godly man hes worth the fight but if the relationship is long distance is he willing to travel to see you does he take the time to call you and do you both talk about how you feel about each other i have a daughter whos only 16 i try not to judge the boys she goes out wth but i tell her the boy must meet us and he has to has to treat her wth love n respect she deserves did you try and sit down and talk wth your mom it seems like this boy likes you i think you should pray about this issue and maybe stop txt him for two days see if he really does care sometimes when a man doesnt hear from a women they get curiouse to see if you like them or better yet send him a card or letter to show him how you feel but its all in gods will if its meant to be it will happen let god decide ok gbu i ll pray for u

 

[PrayerWithChrist]

Yes I said quote “He seems to have gone out of his way lot for you not many guys will do this unless they like someone."What do I mean by this well, if a guy is interested in a girl they will go out of their own way to do nice things to you.


You said quote “He helped me fix my laptop wireless for 2 days threw text. He comes to our table giving us his chocolate out of nowhere, and he cared about my cold pizza.”

Here are some examples of him being very thoughtful and kind to you. Guys that are interested in a girl they like they will do these type of things
to a girl they like.


Another thing to point out is that you have even seen him looking at you. Here you said quote “We always make lot’s of eye contact with each other.”

It has not just been seen by you but by your mother you said quote “My mother says he was eyeing me head to toe when I was heading the exit door.” A guy will not be doing this if he does not find you sexually attractive.


This guy I believe from what you have shared does have an interest in you by what you have shared just another example you said quote “He then asked me if I was going to the retreat and when I got to the retreat, he sat next to me at lunch” I think you should try and build a relationship with him if he has them qualities that I said before.


Prayer is going to be very important so talk to Jesus Christ Our Lord about it and talk to him.


God Bless You. May You Have God’s Blessings With You.


In Christ.
Steve.

 

[OFM]

I AGREE WITH BROTHER STEPHEN 234 PERCENT

 

[DreamGirl19]

i think if this a godly man hes worth the fight but if the relationship is long distance is he willing to travel to see you does he take the time to call you and do you both talk about how you feel about each other i have a daughter whos only 16 i try not to judge the boys she goes out wth but i tell her the boy must meet us and he has to has to treat her wth love n respect she deserves did you try and sit down and talk wth your mom it seems like this boy likes you i think you should pray about this issue and maybe stop txt him for two days see if he really does care sometimes when a man doesnt hear from a women they get curiouse to see if you like them or better yet send him a card or letter to show him how you feel but its all in gods will if its meant to be it will happen let god decide ok gbu i ll pray for u

The thing about this guy, i have a big question about his spiritual life: He brings his latop to chuch with a backpack, and he texts someone in the middle of the paster's sermon: and i missed church one day, and i was led to go on Fb, and i caught him red handed he was on FB, during the worship time and again during the sermon: And another problem is his sister: She's the biggest problem: He's sister is a little wacky: im not being rude, but her friends said she's like a animal cause she bit someone's husband, and her boyfriend: And, she's nasty to my mother: She was saying the word suck, and my mother said she doesn't like that word, then she looks at her and yells out the word SUCK just to do it on purpose: And she ignores me: But they say one bad apple ruins the bunch: That's the only 2 problem's i have about this guy: and the fact he always texts me " you too" 6 times and nothing really more, it makes me think otherwise Is he worth it? Or it's just his sister that's a problem:

 

[DreamGirl19]

I feel lead to write this, but on March 17, 2012 I wrote something in my Journal: And I think you should look at it cause it kindda goes with this situation: I wrote this: " :,( My heart is in pain Were not going to church tom We haven't been there in a month, I only went there 1 time which was last week... We only went 1 time to church this month: And once again, were a no show :,( It stinks. It really does: Chairmen kim said I should become a member : How is that possible when I only go there once a month?! ( this was before, now it's never) How am I supost to get to know Tom ( the guy) better: First time, it seems we were starting to know eachother more in that text, it seemed like he was starting to like me How am I supost to get in a realtionship with someone there when I barley go there?? ( now it's changed to never) It's not fair to Tom if we did get together, and his " gf" doesn't even come to church, and spend no time toghether: If this keeps happening, ( which it did) and we only go there once a month, ( now never) it's not fair to Tom: He should have someone who's always there sunday: And spends time with him in person: IF he's intersted in Lucy... or the girl with the cat eyes.. I understand: At least lucy show's up on sundays: And goes out, and get's to know tom: she's not like me who show's up once or 2 times a month ( now never) :,( Maybe it's "harmless" now, that we dont go to church tom, but IF we only show up once a month... ( now never) I dont want to hurt tom: There's no point of starting something if im a no show 99% of the time: If this goes on... ( which it did) He's better off with lucy or cat girl: Someone who goes frequently: Im a nobody" That's what i wrote in my journal 3 months before: Any word?

 

[PrayerWithChrist]

You said quote “The thing about this guy, I have a big question about his spiritual life: He brings his latop to chuch with a backpack, and he texts someone in the middle of the paster's sermon: and I missed church one day, and I was led to go on Fb, and I caught him red handed he was on FB, during the worship time and again during the sermon.”

This guy is not mature in the Lord he is not worth it! It does not seem he takes Church serious at all. I would also would think of his prayer life is he reading and praying?

1 Corinthians 15:33 “Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”

Proverbs 14:7 “Leave the presence of a fool, for there you do not meet words of knowledge.”

I think you should look for someone else I am just being honest.


God Bless You.


In Christ.

Steve.

 

[DreamGirl19]

You said quote “The thing about this guy, I have a big question about his spiritual life: He brings his latop to chuch with a backpack, and he texts someone in the middle of the paster's sermon: and I missed church one day, and I was led to go on Fb, and I caught him red handed he was on FB, during the worship time and again during the sermon.”

This guy is not mature in the Lord he is not worth it! It does not seem he takes Church serious at all. I would also would think of his prayer life is he reading and praying?

1 Corinthians 15:33 “Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”

Proverbs 14:7 “Leave the presence of a fool, for there you do not meet words of knowledge.”

I think you should look for someone else I am just being honest.


God Bless You.


In Christ.

Steve.

God Bless you too: You must of been sent from God: I was in deep prayer in this situation, and then you come, and have God answers: Thank you steve

 

[DreamGirl19]

THIS THREAD IS CLOSED!

 

[PrayerWithChrist]

Any time my Sister in Christ. God is amazing I am glad that you have found your answer I am glad to help a Sister in Christ.


John 8:32 “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

Mark 4:22 “For nothing is hidden except to be made manifest; nor is anything secret except to come to light.”

God Bless You!

In Christ.

Steve.

 

[DreamGirl19]

Any time my Sister in Christ. God is amazing I am glad that you have found your answer I am glad to help a Sister in Christ.


John 8:32 “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

Mark 4:22 “For nothing is hidden except to be made manifest; nor is anything secret except to come to light.”

God Bless You!

In Christ.

Steve.

wait!!! Im in trouble again!! So I texted this guy Tom a goodbye, and told him where not going back: and i wrote this: " Im not sure if susan told you yesturday, but if she didn't, i will tell you: I left * name of place* : a lot of people asked me the question: " why are you leaving??" and i have a feeling your going to ask the same thing: and i will be honest and you tell you: it wasn't my deciosn: my mother feels we should go back to our old church: im still in * name of town* but just on the other side: If you asked me if i wanted to leave * name of church*, it would be no: i dont know why this is happening, but i can say this: i dont know if it was fate me coming to * name of church* or not, but i love * name of church* and i will return: maybe not now, but in the future: that i promise. I wont forget you Tom *last name* (maybe i got emtional when i said that, but i felt those were the best last words to say) and.. He texted back 3 hours later saying: " Ok Sarah. I'm sure everyone including I will miss you. Hope you grow lots at church" So... Does it still look like he like me? and he said "ok" did that mean he's willing to wait for me, or did i just freaked him out Should i still hold on to him, from that text? he did say he will miss me... or does it look it changed, and he doesnt feel that way anymore:

 

[DreamGirl19]

Or was i worng? didn't he like me and i mis read it the singles he was giving me? when i said " i wont forget you tom" did i freak him out, cause he didn't like me that way, cause he says: " ok sarah. im sure everyone including I will miss you"