This is a short summary of my situation with GOD and the things that have actually happened in my LIFE.
Back in 2004 I took my family to a local church, because it was the right thing to do. My daughter was 3 years old at the time, and me and my wife had been married for 5 plus years. We went faithfully for a while, and then a man that was married at the time, started meeting my wife at the church after hours. My wife would tell me that she was "volunteering at the churches coffee shop" when I would get home after a long stressfully day at work. The whole time we where married. she never had to work, i provided and she got to raise our daughter.
When I would ask her if I could come up to the church with her, she would say, that we needed our own separate set of friends.... This made me uncomfortable, but I trusted that she was doing something that was making her happy....so i thought no harm could POSSIBLY COME FROM IT...
For about 1 year, this went on, AROUND EASTER OF 2004 until one day she told me she wanted a divorce.
Come to find out, she was going up to the church alright, but she was spending INNAPPROPIATE TIME WITH THIS MARRIED MAN, AND ALL THOSE PEOPLE IN THE CHURCH COFFEE SHOP KNEW IT.
not A SINGLE ONE OF THEN CALLED TO ALERT ME OF THIS SITUATION. A TON if people knew about it because he was a youth type pastor "leader" in the youth ministry coffee shop thing....
I found out later when I went up to the church and started asking questions....Yes, come to find out that no had the guts to call me and tell me and do the right thing.....
This is what happened:
After a year long affair going on in my house, while i was at work...that i was working my brains out to pay for, him living in an apartment no having a dime to his name, still really doesn't, HE left his wife and children to STEAL MINE. My daughter began to bond with him at the church and take my place.
I ended up moving out of our house, into a bad apartment complex. I paid child support 1 year before we actually got divorced. I am sure they used that money for their escapades.
In 2006. I had a nervous breakdown when they moved to Florida. I could not afford to follow them and they where gone for a YEAR AND A HALF. They MOVED because the "FAMILY STEALER" had his kid down there from his x-wife that he divorced to STEAL MINE.
Now it is 2009 and I have missed TONS of time with my daughter that I loved more than anything.
I see her every once in a while like at parks, but I have no been able to recover financially since 2004 and now I am on medication due to my nervous breakdown back in 2006.
FACT:
If I had never trusted God and gone to that Church, that man would never have met my wife, and I would more than likely still have my family...
You cannot tell that was GOD"s "wonderful loving master plan "i am your farther"..I know best for your life son"......
Do you know that things happen withOUT God's permission ALL THE TIME.......
EVIL MEAN SELFISH PEOPLE THAT ONLY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES GET IN OUR WAY ALL THE TIME AND STEAL THINGS FROM US....I HAVE SUFFERED WITHOUT PURPOSE SINCE THIS HAS TAKEN PLACE BACK IN 2004.....
Back in 2004 I took my family to a local church, because it was the right thing to do. My daughter was 3 years old at the time, and me and my wife had been married for 5 plus years. We went faithfully for a while, and then a man that was married at the time, started meeting my wife at the church after hours. My wife would tell me that she was "volunteering at the churches coffee shop" when I would get home after a long stressfully day at work. The whole time we where married. she never had to work, i provided and she got to raise our daughter.
When I would ask her if I could come up to the church with her, she would say, that we needed our own separate set of friends.... This made me uncomfortable, but I trusted that she was doing something that was making her happy....so i thought no harm could POSSIBLY COME FROM IT...
For about 1 year, this went on, AROUND EASTER OF 2004 until one day she told me she wanted a divorce.
Come to find out, she was going up to the church alright, but she was spending INNAPPROPIATE TIME WITH THIS MARRIED MAN, AND ALL THOSE PEOPLE IN THE CHURCH COFFEE SHOP KNEW IT.
not A SINGLE ONE OF THEN CALLED TO ALERT ME OF THIS SITUATION. A TON if people knew about it because he was a youth type pastor "leader" in the youth ministry coffee shop thing....
I found out later when I went up to the church and started asking questions....Yes, come to find out that no had the guts to call me and tell me and do the right thing.....
This is what happened:
After a year long affair going on in my house, while i was at work...that i was working my brains out to pay for, him living in an apartment no having a dime to his name, still really doesn't, HE left his wife and children to STEAL MINE. My daughter began to bond with him at the church and take my place.
I ended up moving out of our house, into a bad apartment complex. I paid child support 1 year before we actually got divorced. I am sure they used that money for their escapades.
In 2006. I had a nervous breakdown when they moved to Florida. I could not afford to follow them and they where gone for a YEAR AND A HALF. They MOVED because the "FAMILY STEALER" had his kid down there from his x-wife that he divorced to STEAL MINE.
Now it is 2009 and I have missed TONS of time with my daughter that I loved more than anything.
I see her every once in a while like at parks, but I have no been able to recover financially since 2004 and now I am on medication due to my nervous breakdown back in 2006.
FACT:
If I had never trusted God and gone to that Church, that man would never have met my wife, and I would more than likely still have my family...
You cannot tell that was GOD"s "wonderful loving master plan "i am your farther"..I know best for your life son"......
Do you know that things happen withOUT God's permission ALL THE TIME.......
EVIL MEAN SELFISH PEOPLE THAT ONLY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES GET IN OUR WAY ALL THE TIME AND STEAL THINGS FROM US....I HAVE SUFFERED WITHOUT PURPOSE SINCE THIS HAS TAKEN PLACE BACK IN 2004.....