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ArtsieSteph
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I think some guys, even as much as girls do, get confused about their feelings. Most guys don't tend to be super "share your feelings" oriented so they can sorta go back and forth.
And I gotta say, girls are way worse at that than girls. Myself included. -___-;
I have a question, sort of tying in with the horses and cowboys thing, why is it that we girls like bad boys? We like the IDEA of having a bad boy, but those who actually HAVE bad boys are like " I GOTTA QUIT THIS MAN" you know?
And I gotta say, girls are way worse at that than girls. Myself included. -___-;
I have a question, sort of tying in with the horses and cowboys thing, why is it that we girls like bad boys? We like the IDEA of having a bad boy, but those who actually HAVE bad boys are like " I GOTTA QUIT THIS MAN" you know?
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ArtsieSteph
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I meant GIRLS are worse at that then guys. Sheesh.
Girls are also worse at spelling errors it seems.
Girls are also worse at spelling errors it seems.
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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I think you just said it... "girls" like bad boys.
I'm not sure a responsible grown woman would want this type of man. He wouldn't be good for anything.
Most women like boring predictable guys with no personality. Guys who just sit there and stare at Televisions are perfect.
These guys are never going to hook surgical tubing through the sunroof of the car for the purpose of launching eggs at Interstate signs.
These guys never take a day off work to be with their woman. These guys never just jump in the car and drive to the Keys on a long weekend to take their lady snorkeling.
There doesn't ever need to be trust in a relationship, because he lacks the capacity to do anything unexpected.
These guys are never going to hook surgical tubing through the sunroof of the car for the purpose of launching eggs at Interstate signs.
These guys never take a day off work to be with their woman. These guys never just jump in the car and drive to the Keys on a long weekend to take their lady snorkeling.
There doesn't ever need to be trust in a relationship, because he lacks the capacity to do anything unexpected.
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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In my experience the men with the great personality's and good looks know they have great personality's and look good. These men get a lot of attention from women, so they date every other woman and her mother. They like the attention and there always after someone that can give that to them. They quickly tire of one woman and go after one right after the other.
These so called "boring predictable guys" are the ones that arent going to cheat on you, you never have to worry about that with them. There the ones that you can rely on and depend on. There consistent in their affection for you. You dont have to worry that there gonna get bored with you and move on after a month.
Most women like boring, predictable guys? Seems like I hear a lot of women complain about their guy spending more time with the TV set than with their wife.
And I have no doubt that those interstate signs had it coming.
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kayem77
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Um... its actually women who have the commitment issues. They come up with some lame excuse when they get bored, and leave you. Like, "I don't feel like this is the will of God." And now I'm like, "Let me go get my Crystal 'will of God' ball and find out oh wait, there is no such thing."
Like just like the "New Relationship Energy" when the fuzzy vibes go away, they are suddenly not in the mood to hang out anymore. "I really liked you when we first met, but now that we're actually friends, I don't."
Heaven forbid a relationship actually become deep and personal.
As far as being cheated on, women see some tool on a motorcycle and suddenly forget they are in a relationship. "vroom vroom" *melt* (-_-)
AND boring dependable guys are BORING!! Do you love him? "well he has a good job." DO you love Him? "He is a kind man." DO YOU LOVE HIM? "I will learn to love him."
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violakat
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Why do women have the personality where they're easily insulted after being wrong & a man must agree with her reasoning in order for the "two" to be happy? It seems very common. Not only that I annoy ladies when I'm in the right & I try to explain why & just for that suddenly I'm a bad guy...
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Livi94
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Hmmmm I feel like I'm always trying to prove that im right but I dont feel insulted when I'm proved wrong... Actually I've found that a lot of guys hate it when they are proved wrong XD
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Livi94
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Okay this question is for everyone in general but I just thought of it today. Why do we still use hand motions when we talk ON THE PHONE? D: I just don't get it XD
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violakat
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I think that's human nature. We, as in both men and women, don't like to be wrong on anything. And, when someone comes across as a know it all, it can be very annoying. I should know, since I have this habit at times of coming across like one. Really try to keep it down to a minimum, like maybe one a day.
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violakat
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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Um... its actually women who have the commitment issues. They come up with some lame excuse when they get bored, and leave you. Like, "I don't feel like this is the will of God." And now I'm like, "Let me go get my Crystal 'will of God' ball and find out oh wait, there is no such thing."
Like just like the "New Relationship Energy" when the fuzzy vibes go away, they are suddenly not in the mood to hang out anymore. "I really liked you when we first met, but now that we're actually friends, I don't."
Heaven forbid a relationship actually become deep and personal.
As far as being cheated on, women see some tool on a motorcycle and suddenly forget they are in a relationship. "vroom vroom" *melt* (-_-)
AND boring dependable guys are BORING!! Do you love him? "well he has a good job." DO you love Him? "He is a kind man." DO YOU LOVE HIM? "I will learn to love him."
You seem upset. Did this just recently happen to you??
what may seem boring to you may not be boing to us.
Men and women both alike have commitment issues.
and sometimes the best choice isnt always necessarily the most exciting one. I see nothing wrong with. I will learn to love him.
Um... its actually women who have the commitment issues. They come up with some lame excuse when they get bored, and leave you. Like, "I don't feel like this is the will of God." And now I'm like, "Let me go get my Crystal 'will of God' ball and find out oh wait, there is no such thing."
Like just like the "New Relationship Energy" when the fuzzy vibes go away, they are suddenly not in the mood to hang out anymore. "I really liked you when we first met, but now that we're actually friends, I don't."
Heaven forbid a relationship actually become deep and personal.
As far as being cheated on, women see some tool on a motorcycle and suddenly forget they are in a relationship. "vroom vroom" *melt* (-_-)
AND boring dependable guys are BORING!! Do you love him? "well he has a good job." DO you love Him? "He is a kind man." DO YOU LOVE HIM? "I will learn to love him."
I know what you mean.
I believe in Love.
Love is not a cold capitulation which merely endures the presence of another for the sake of not being alone.
Love is not an equivalent exchange for sex, security, money, stability, safety, luxury or even complacent familiarity.
It is not an obligation to be fulfilled in a person who lacks the inspiration to grasp the complexity and the beauty of your soul.
To be truly loved, is to be valued, not for anything that can be measured, but for the very heart of you.
There is a part of all of us that wishes to be seen for who we really are. This is a want to be loved, in spite of our failures and for that love to mean everything, to endure everything, and to always be there for us.
When the friends are all gone, when the money has left, when the party is over, when there is no tangible thing to grasp, Love remains.
Love hopes, Love dreams, Love inspires, Love endures, Love protects, Love believes, Love perseveres and Love does not die.
Love does not see with eyes that fade. Love does not stray in search of something more. It simply is the natural exhibition of the way God intended for us to be.
That is to say that love is not going to answer all of life's problems. It is not going to make money greener. It is not going to make the sky bluer or life easier, it simply is a precious gift from God.
To me there is no greater treasure under the sun than to be able to love someone with all of my heart and to be loved in return. In sickness and in health, for better or worse, for as long as we both shall live.
Love is not a cold capitulation which merely endures the presence of another for the sake of not being alone.
Love is not an equivalent exchange for sex, security, money, stability, safety, luxury or even complacent familiarity.
It is not an obligation to be fulfilled in a person who lacks the inspiration to grasp the complexity and the beauty of your soul.
To be truly loved, is to be valued, not for anything that can be measured, but for the very heart of you.
There is a part of all of us that wishes to be seen for who we really are. This is a want to be loved, in spite of our failures and for that love to mean everything, to endure everything, and to always be there for us.
When the friends are all gone, when the money has left, when the party is over, when there is no tangible thing to grasp, Love remains.
Love hopes, Love dreams, Love inspires, Love endures, Love protects, Love believes, Love perseveres and Love does not die.
Love does not see with eyes that fade. Love does not stray in search of something more. It simply is the natural exhibition of the way God intended for us to be.
That is to say that love is not going to answer all of life's problems. It is not going to make money greener. It is not going to make the sky bluer or life easier, it simply is a precious gift from God.
To me there is no greater treasure under the sun than to be able to love someone with all of my heart and to be loved in return. In sickness and in health, for better or worse, for as long as we both shall live.
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