So how do I interact with people when I very little in common with them?

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dothackzero said:
So I'm curious, could not having good fellowship make it harder to fellowship with God?
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no. I have found that having a fellowship with God allows for you to have better and truer friendships with people because you understand what it means to be loved by Him and can love others in the same way.

as someone mentioned. if you learn to be a good listener and care about the person you are talking to and learn what matters to them, then its easy to make friends because people like to talk about themselves and their interest.

well, I would say it is easy to be a good friend. however to gain one yourself is to have some care enough and be able to look outside themselves to see YOU and love you as you are. I thank God for the few true friends who love and support me no matter what that God has placed in my life.

Its not the people who are hanging around during the good times but the ones who will stick with you even when you are down, mean or just not very social. the ones who forgives you your mistakes and stands up with you when you need them.

i have found to make true friends you have to first be willing to be one and build that trust and loving bond between the other person.
 
Finally starting to get some better fellowship(God's working with my fear and social anxiety). The only time problem is that my chuch time is back down to once a week. :(
 
God is good, glad he is providing you with friends :) With the church issue, does you church have church house groups? If so, that would be a very good idea to join one, so you can make close Christian friends, as well read the word and pray. Iron sharpen's iron. God bless you brother.
 
So does calling friends on the cell-phone have a better chance of getting them to hang out than just a facebook message?
 
dothackzero said:
Finally starting to get some better fellowship(God's working with my fear and social anxiety). The only time problem is that my chuch time is back down to once a week. :(
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Glad to hear it's getting better!!! :) Keep working at it, nothing comes in a day. ^^^And yes calling is usually a better way(depending on what you have planned).
 
dothackzero said:
So does calling friends on the cell-phone have a better chance of getting them to hang out than just a facebook message?
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I find it uneasy to call people myself. I normally text people instead. But each to there own. Do what you are happy with.
 
Looks like God is setting me into a better position to get used to girls. I've got a major project for my class where my partners are 5 girls.
 
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