Top 5 Quickest Ways to Get Dumped by Me

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Liamson

Liamson

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1. Siding with my mother in an argument. This is a big no no. If to her, my mom makes sense and I don't, there is something wrong with my Girlfriend and we are probably done.

2. Treating me the same as everyone else or treating everyone else the same as me. I don't need to feel terribly special but, just a little more special than everyone else works. Waiting to kiss until being engaged and then kissing your guy friends on the cheek... That just makes me the guy who pays for everything. Not going to work. I'm not super jealous but, just enough to let you go.

3. Getting new tattoos of stupid stuff. I don't know what the depth or symbolism is of getting a new rainbow trout across your thigh and a Palm Tree on your heel is, but its pretty much my sign that perhaps she isn't my soul mate.

4. Having an uncontrollable urge to dig ridiculously deep in debt. Yeah that new bike you just bought for 6,300 and financed at 17 percent. Not a fan, but whether they repossess it or you magically pay it off, I'll still be your friend.

5. Burning Man



Based on my experience these are mine. What are yours?
 
1. Lying to me or betraying confidences - not just mine, but those of others as well. This tells me you are untrustworthy, and trust is #1 to me on the importance scale.
2. Being a flirt
3. Being rude, intentionally saying hurtful things to people
4. Gossiping. I.HATE.GOSSIP.
5. Being controlling. I want to be your helpmate, not your prisoner.
 
1) Wanting nothing to do with God.
2) Gossip.
3) Being cruel to others.
4) Advertising her bodily assess.
5) Not letting me watch the Super Bowl.
 
1) Talking about his self all the time, seeming more interested in himself than me. Or talking non stop.



2) Inconsistency. If you say your going to do something, i expect you to do it. Or being Wishy washy , if you like me... you better act like it. None of this hot and cold crap


3) Being pushy. I don't like trying to be pushed into doing anything i don't want to. If i say no i really mean no, its non-negotiable. I do things when i want to do them.


4) If he likes every girl under the sun. Can't stand the guys who are totally girl crazy.

5) Lying. You get two chances with this one. The first time you lie and i find out, it's not gonna be pretty, but the second time... you might as well just forget about it, cause im not even gonna give you the time of day to try and explain yourself.
 
I find my top deal breaker is actually..

1.) If he were to lean in to kiss me and his belly would touch me before his lips- it's a no.
 
p.s. I don't feel like posting four other deal breakers, everyone else gave normal standards that fit me as well. Except the super bowl comment- that wouldn't apply to me- as in you can hate sports and date me.
 
1. Telling me lies (sometimes i think i have a radar inside of me)

2. Being agressive and/or rude (if you have to tell something ugly then say it in a soft way)

3. Having someone bigger than God in your life

4. Having a malevolent and bitter mother (im not Snowhite :D i just have met few "special" women)

5. Making dramas (i prefer men with emotional maturity)
 
1)Being disrespectfull to me often(sometimes things can be done unintentionally, when i do address them please hear me out and listen to how it affected me when you did___or said____)
2)Not wanting to grow spritually or read the bible..grow in your faith. I myself am growing and learning each day, but we should be seeking to learn even if its a little each day..grow..none of us have arrived! If you say you have...i will run as fast i can in the other direction.
3)Not respect my mom, Listen i know she is old school..and she is protective of me..but seriously. Please respect her, not saying you two must go have lunch or a latte at starbucks but for the love of Pete..be courteous. She's my momma. thanks
4)Not wanting to have fun/boring..or a non adventourous person. I want to be fun, outgoing..learn to be more outgoing and if you are stuffy,sheltered and don't want to do anything i will come to several conclusions. You are sheltered, you are boring, you are uptight and stuffy and cannot have fun, or you simply do not like me as much as you say that you do and need to find someone whom you would enjoy doing fun stuff with. Which is ok with be..but be honest about it please.
5) Not wanting to have quality time with me. I understand we all have lives, have friends, things we do outside of seeing each other. But if you only want to hang once a week, and it has to be on your terms. Or if all you want to do is always hang with your friends, invite me along and expect it to always be a group thing then you are out of balance and i will never get to know you..and it's healthy for couples to have one on one time together. So you either want a relationship, are ready for the committment or want an activity partner/bro/want me friend zoned. Either way, please be honest with me if I must be friendzoned then tell me long before you hold my hand,kiss me, tell all your friends that I am your boyfriend then run for the hills a week later because I am actually starting to treat you as my actual girlfriend. (wierd? No, i just am expressive and very romantic)

ok, there's my contribution to the thread! *steps off the soap box..walks away..
 
Liz01 said:
1. Telling me lies (sometimes i think i have a radar inside of me)

2. Being agressive and/or rude (if you have to tell something ugly then say it in a soft way)

3. Having someone bigger than God in your life

4. Having a malevolent and bitter mother (im not Snowhite :D i just have met few "special" women)

5. Making dramas (i prefer men with emotional maturity)
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Lol..#4..some of us Latino guys have tough/overbearing moms..They are great, but can be intimidating to young ladies who are not used to it. I promise my mom isn't a monster, she's just tough..speaks her mind..and loves both of her sons very much. She's a momma grizzly for sure..she'll tear someone up who messes with us! :)
 
rauleetoe said:
Lol..#4..some of us Latino guys have tough/overbearing moms..They are great, but can be intimidating to young ladies who are not used to it. I promise my mom isn't a monster, she's just tough..speaks her mind..and loves both of her sons very much. She's a momma grizzly for sure..she'll tear someone up who messes with us! :)
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hahaha, i think many moms are protective and its normal and a lot of women around here are very strong women, they are not monsters lol :)

the women that im talking about in number # 4 of my other post are rude, gossipers, with a lot of prejudices and they dont like never what you are wear or your hair
 
So what events in a normal Christian dating relationship, would cause you to dump your significant other, as quickly as if they had cheated on you?

Like sudden life choices or things not associated with Character as much as just a terrible decision.
 
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1. PRETTY BOY ATTITUDE - I'd like my man to look good and smell good (hygiene) but it's such a turn-off for me when a guy has a bigger vanity kit than i do.
2. DISHONESTY - I loathe deceit.
3. COWARDICE - I cannot imagine myself growing old with a fearfully selfish man.
4. INSENSITIVE - I'll always care for my man's feelings and I'd expect him to care for mine too.
5. HYPOCRISY .... is just disgusting to me.
 
We are a Christian family, however, I would not allow my daughter to date you. Why, if you can't admit when you're wrong, you my friend have a problem Christian or not..
 
Liamson said:
So what events in a normal Christian dating relationship, would cause you to dump your significant other, as quickly as if they had cheated on you?

Like sudden life choices or things not associated with Character as much as just a terrible decision.
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- Talking to me like a child. I'll look up to you. I'll respect you, but I'm not 12. I'm not a girl. I'm not an idiot. I'm a woman.

- Playing games. If you ask me for my number and I give it to you, and then you do that waiting three days before calling me garbage, don't expect me to be thrilled about answering. Games are for kids.

- I don't want to hear all about your ex GFs. Let the past be the past. Move on already.
 
Top 5 quickest ways to get dumped by me:

1. Her smile is nicer than mine (I refuse to let my pearly whites be upstaged)

2. If she asks me to choose between her and chocolate (cocoa beans will win everytime)

3. She can beat me in arm wrestling (not that it could happen, I'm just sayin)

4. We sit down in a restaurant and she decides to order for me but doesn't pay the bill (if you're going to take charge, you gotta follow through)

5. She asks me to hold her purse in public (sorry ladies, that is just simply unethical for a man to do)
 
Jullianna said:
LOL@ the Superbowl thing :)
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4 or 5 years ago I meet a woman who wouldn't allow her husband to watch sports. So I asked her not even for the Super Bowl? I mean a lot of people don't like football but watch it for the commerials. She say no. Barring some kind of emergency, or command from God, I needs to see the Super Bowl.
 
rauleetoe said:
1)Being disrespectfull to me often(sometimes things can be done unintentionally, when i do address them please hear me out and listen to how it affected me when you did___or said____)
2)Not wanting to grow spritually or read the bible..grow in your faith. I myself am growing and learning each day, but we should be seeking to learn even if its a little each day..grow..none of us have arrived! If you say you have...i will run as fast i can in the other direction.
3)Not respect my mom, Listen i know she is old school..and she is protective of me..but seriously. Please respect her, not saying you two must go have lunch or a latte at starbucks but for the love of Pete..be courteous. She's my momma. thanks
4)Not wanting to have fun/boring..or a non adventourous person. I want to be fun, outgoing..learn to be more outgoing and if you are stuffy,sheltered and don't want to do anything i will come to several conclusions. You are sheltered, you are boring, you are uptight and stuffy and cannot have fun, or you simply do not like me as much as you say that you do and need to find someone whom you would enjoy doing fun stuff with. Which is ok with be..but be honest about it please.
5) Not wanting to have quality time with me. I understand we all have lives, have friends, things we do outside of seeing each other. But if you only want to hang once a week, and it has to be on your terms. Or if all you want to do is always hang with your friends, invite me along and expect it to always be a group thing then you are out of balance and i will never get to know you..and it's healthy for couples to have one on one time together. So you either want a relationship, are ready for the committment or want an activity partner/bro/want me friend zoned. Either way, please be honest with me if I must be friendzoned then tell me long before you hold my hand,kiss me, tell all your friends that I am your boyfriend then run for the hills a week later because I am actually starting to treat you as my actual girlfriend. (wierd? No, i just am expressive and very romantic)

ok, there's my contribution to the thread! *steps off the soap box..walks away..
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I like your third reason, maybe I'm a mamma boy, but I think one should respect their parents. I guest my dad spank that into me, when I was a kid (and know I don't hate him/them for it). If I got in trouble with him I was spanked, if I got in trouble with mom, she would give me a guilt trip than when dad got home a more severe spanking, from him than normal
 
Liamson said:
So what events in a normal Christian dating relationship, would cause you to dump your significant other, as quickly as if they had cheated on you?

Like sudden life choices or things not associated with Character as much as just a terrible decision.
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If he starts to smother me. If i don't answer the phone the first time you called, it's probably for a good reason, so that doesn't mean call me and text me 20 times in the next five minutes.

If were out in public and he stares at every girl that walks by.
 
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