Thank you so much for watching the video. It truly warms my heart to hear of your compassion and love for your fellow man.
And certainly, I do not expect you to agree forthright. I understand that my position on this issue is more...radical than most. Perhaps it would help if I explained my background a little bit more. I've spent the majority of my teenage years deep in the Bible Belt South, where being gay is pretty much THE worst sin anyone can commit, ever. I've been surrounded by people who think Obama is a socialist Muslim from Kenya, and those who secretly agree with the message of the WBC: "God Hates Fags".
I'm aware that most Christians are amazing, loving people, but my experience has perhaps tainted that, just a bit. So when I say that I hate cherry-picking and theological laziness, I'm not talking about all people who view homosexuality as a sin. I'm talking about people who refuse to listen to any viewpoint other than their own, and who lack the discipline and interest to research things for themselves.
You are obviously not one of those people.
In regards to 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 -- Matthew addressed this argument briefly, but I will as well. Just as a brief refresher, he says:
I must say that I agree with him. Marriage, as you stated, is not just a sexual thing. It is a love thing. I believe that homosexuals are just as capable of that sort of love as heterosexuals. (my position on gay marriage is rooted in secularism. I am quite passionate about the Separation of Church and State...but that's not a theological thing, so I'll leave it out of here for now.) And God does tell us to "go forth and multiply" (Genesis 9:7) So it strikes me a natural thing for homosexuals to desire a family of some sort.
Matthew Vines and I focus primarily on the 6 verses that reference same sex behavior because those are the ones relevant to the topic and the ones most often cited by Christians as to why homosexuality is immoral. For example, if you wanted to learn more about creation, you would not be reading from Deuteronomy or even from Romans-- you would be reading from Genesis 1 and 2, because they address the topic specifically. You'll note, however, that he does not focus ONLY on those passages. He even goes into the original Greek in order to understand the author's intent!
And I understand your hesitance to betray or test God. Truly, I don't think any real Christian wants to do that. Only you can decide what is right for you.
Matthew Vines never mentioned his desperate search for someone to love. But we are humans, and we are social creatures, and it likely, if not inevitable, that he may end up finding someone who he grows to care deeply for. It doesn't mean he was spending his days looking, you know?
I hope I addressed everything in your last post. If I didn't, just bring it up again, and I'll try anew. I have a class to get to, so I wasn't able to spend as long on a reply as I usually would.
Anyway, GB.