all of a sudden you guys write about this/my topic when you hardly talk to me in the chatroom?
You should note that the 'forum' chatters and the 'chat room chatters' are mostly not the same people. There are some that overlap and do both chat room and forums, but it is a small group. For the most part they are two separate groups. So you can't judge the forum chatters by the chat room.
The chat rooms tend to be very cliquish. Mostly dominated by a group of friends that show little interest in anyone outside their clique. Most others are likely quiet people or people who prefer to not talk in the main chats but stay in PM's. That's often the case with me. I talk maybe 10% of the time in main, if that.
I have the same problems of getting greeted, except by the few people i know a bit. So yeah, chat room wise i agree i don't care for most, especially the 'clique'. But i've been patient and made some great friends here.
Fractal, well, seems a number of others felt the same way i did, so you seem to be the only one thinking that was ok.