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BlueAngel
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Oh, there may be damsels in distress, but seeing you in that outfit... I think it distressed them even more... 
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BlueAngel
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I've been distressed for quite some time now... Problem is, that my surper real man (my fiancee) has been distressed too.
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BlueAngel
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Might as well just let everyone know, huh?
My doctor says I can't have children... so, I've been really bummed out, becasue that was the only dream I had... the only thing I really wanted.. and my fiancee totally agreed, he's the type of guy who likes big families, and he wanted one of his own.... but we found out I can't have children, so now we're both really bummed.
We're trying to trust that God will bless us with our own children someday... but till we're married, we'll never know... so we have to patient too. :/
My doctor says I can't have children... so, I've been really bummed out, becasue that was the only dream I had... the only thing I really wanted.. and my fiancee totally agreed, he's the type of guy who likes big families, and he wanted one of his own.... but we found out I can't have children, so now we're both really bummed.
We're trying to trust that God will bless us with our own children someday... but till we're married, we'll never know... so we have to patient too. :/
Aww, that is disappointing! Have hope, though! You aren't the first to hear this sad news. In fact, if you haven't read it before, Genesis 16 is actually a pretty amazing story about God working miracles.
That said, adoption is also a really powerful thing. It may be a little rougher at times, but think of how incredible it would be to care for one of God's children. To share God's love with one of the most helpless and hopeless of His creation. God's will really is amazing, seek it and your life will turn out amazing!
Praying.
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BlueAngel
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Thing is, that I really don't want to adopt.
Not that it wouldn't help us have the family we want, and it would definitely help a child in need of a family, but that's really not what we wanted... I wanted to be able to have my own children. :/
Not that it wouldn't help us have the family we want, and it would definitely help a child in need of a family, but that's really not what we wanted... I wanted to be able to have my own children. :/
Blue, I'm really sorry to hear that. If you need/want to PM me, feel free. And you might not want suggestions right now... I know you might just want to be left alone. But, I really think you would feel more at peace with the situation if you gave your desire for children to God. Something like, "God, you know how much I want children, but if it's not in Your plan for my life, I accept that and surrender it to You." But only if you feel like that's something you're ready or willing to do, of course.
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YoungServant
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BlueAngel
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Thanks for the suggestion PC, and we've been praying a lot, together and apart... That if it's in his plan for us to have children, we'll raise them the best we can, and we'll raise them for God... But if it's no in his plan, then we're praying that we'll have the strength to overcome it, and still be able to love and support each other, and others who might be going through the same thing.
But, I agree, that some doctors just don't know what they're talking about... (psst... that's what I'm hoping happened this time..)
Of course, there are things that have happened that lead the doctor to believe that I'm infertile, however, God can heal anyone, if they just believe in him.
May God bless all of you for your help and support with this... I was going to take it to the prayer forums, but I decided not to make it TOTALLY public... everyone that's bee posting in this thread recently, is my friend, so I felt safe posting it to you guys
Thanks for the suggestion PC, and we've been praying a lot, together and apart... That if it's in his plan for us to have children, we'll raise them the best we can, and we'll raise them for God... But if it's no in his plan, then we're praying that we'll have the strength to overcome it, and still be able to love and support each other, and others who might be going through the same thing.
But, I agree, that some doctors just don't know what they're talking about... (psst... that's what I'm hoping happened this time..)
Of course, there are things that have happened that lead the doctor to believe that I'm infertile, however, God can heal anyone, if they just believe in him.
I agree whole-heartedly with the part in blue. He is amazing! Jesus truly is all we need. I hope things turn out the way He's planned, and that your heart has peace about whatever happens. <3