Oh ugh, I hardly want to comment and yet, if I do, I might learn something.....
I spent two years with a pentecostal church. From that time frame what I learned was that experiences are greater than the Word of God. The members were unscriptural in their usage of the sign gifts - and hence, were not sign gifts at all, but either man's whacked imagination or satanic in origin. Those whom did not hold to their ideas were: unsaved, condemned to hell, etc.
Now I do believe far more strongly than any of them did, that the Holy Spirit is real, is alive, is active in the lives of believers, whom will let Him lead.
I believe strongly that the gifts of the Spirit are real and for today. There usage is for reaching the lost (witnessing tool) and any other appearance is not of God.
I believe strongly that the gifts of the Spirit, belong to the Spirit and are given as usage become applicable. No one person has or owns a gift but may experience using of any or all at any point in their spiritual journey.
I also have seen all of the Spiritual gifts demonstrated, to shocking ends, in reaching the lost for Jesus. I think I did say ALL.
I have never spoken in tongues, the only time I have ever seen the real gift was in a small Mexican village, used by a guy I knew well enough to know he did not speak the local indian dialect. 165 can to salvation that day, almost the entire town! Yeah they knew a miracle when they saw it.