Unusual Favorites About The Opposite Gender

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lil_christian

lil_christian

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I know lots of people say I'm young, but I still have a bit of an opinion on the opposite gender :) so these are the things I like seeing in guys:

1. HUGE bonus points for guys out there that listen. I like it alot when a guy listens (boyfriend or not. I have never even had a boyfriend and hopefully it stays that way for a while longer). It shows that they care about you as a person and as a friend.

2. If a guy is a musician, it helps too. And not the guys who say they sing and play guitar but aren't very good in either one or both of those aspects, but guys who actually CAN.

3. Well, as they say, the eyes have it! Right up there with musician, it's something I will fall for. Every. Time. (In spite of not having a whole lot of crushes, every guy I've ever had a crush on has had really nice-looking eyes and/or could sing or they were a musician...right now my current crush has those things. haha)

4. It doesn't matter if a guy is taller than me or if we're the same height...but I don't really like guys shorter than me (5'6'' over here y'all...to be honest I doubt it's very hard to find a guy taller than me haha).

5. Patience is a virtue. A virtue that ANY guy who would be interested in me would need (since it can be something I lack...I'm a bit of a short-fused person >.<). Along with kindness.

6. I typically don't hang out with people younger than me...always older. Soo I guess a guy who's just a couple years older than me (someone who's definitely wiser than me) would be something...


Once again, these are just things I'm thinking about for future references. :) Not wanting a guy right now, and am happily single (well excluding the night where homecoming for my friends was going on...basically all my girl friends that went had dates. Yeah, that felt kinda lonely...but that was temporary. Pretty much over that now). But if I were to want/find a guy when I'm older, these would be things I look for.
 
Oncefallen

Oncefallen

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lil_christian said:
I know lots of people say I'm young, but I still have a bit of an opinion on the opposite gender :) so these are the things I like seeing in guys:
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Lil, don't even bother thinking about these things, you're not allowed to date 'til you're 30 and you know it. :D
 
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Relena7

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I'm not usually romantically interested in manly men (sport-obsessed, buzz haircut, tattooed, super muscly, etc.).

I like my men sensitive. :)

Long hair is nice too. :D
 
PopClick

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Elizabeth619 said:
I just wanted to let the wonderful ladies of CC know, that if you like a unique dresser then my cousin Chad is available, and he is a Christian. Nothing like a furry hat, and orange and white overalls to scream bachelor of the year!
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Hmm... how much do you want for him?
 
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kayem77

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lil_christian said:
That gives me a right to be boy-crazy how? :p
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When I was your age I used to have tons of crushes too, but they were mostly celebrities haha.



wait.......I can't believe I'm starting a sentence with ''when I was your age''........ OH NO, I'M GETTIN OLD!!!!!!!! :eek::eek:
 
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1. Christian
2. Eyes are the windows to the soul
3. Would make a wonderful father, Loves children
4. Communicates- The key to success in marriage is communication
5. Admires you
6. Affectionate
7. Loves the Lord, Kind of back to number 1
 
Oncefallen

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kayem77 said:
wait.......I can't believe I'm starting a sentence with ''when I was your age''........ OH NO, I'M GETTIN OLD!!!!!!!! :eek::eek:
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Before you know it you'll be buying Geritol, Metamucil, and Depends. :p
 
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MaryR

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Deva_1972 said:
A guy's hands can sometimes be mesmerizing to me somehow.....I don't know what it is....lol
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I love certain men's hands too. :)

Also.... uniforms. I'm a sucker for a man in uniform. Although, that's not purely a physical thing. I come from a family of military folks and considered joining myself, so it means a lot to me.
 
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GRA

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kayem77 said:
Hahaha NEVER! :p
Well I take Centrum , but Centrum is for young people :cool:
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If I remember correctly -- Centrum started out being only for older folks! :eek:

"Interesting... No?"

:)

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kayem77

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Haha well they do have Centrum for older people, Centrum for women, Centrum for kids, etc. So everyone can feel included :)
 
Ritter

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1. I prefer women who are older than me, because I can't relate to the young ones.

2. Some weight isn't necessarily a bad thing (within the bounds of health that is).

3. The need for glasses does not necessarily make one less attractive either.

4. Geekiness is hot under certain conditions.

5. Nothing is hotter than a girl wearing Buffalo Sabres paraphernalia.

6. Critical thinking skills.


kayem77 said:
It doesn't matter how much the world says playboys are cool...they are not in my list. Bad boys aren't cool or ''mysterious'' either, they are just immature jerks. Too much muscle is not attractive to me, please don't try to look like Rambo. I don't believe a nice car or a Harley Davidson replaces a man's personality. I think some degree of nerdiness and geekiness is attractive in a man. I seriously don't believe that a guy loses his man card for expressing affection to puppies and babies unless he is crying while he holds them.
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So Kayem, what will you be up to late November? :p

[Mostly in jest.]
 
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