single from birth....

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single from birth

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sweet_eyes

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I have never dated never had a b/f never been kissed. are there many out there like myself??? I am 23, old according to a lot of ppl I've talked to to still be "single from birth" ...now I know I'm not the only one...Do you know where your lone life is?;)
 
sweet_eyes said:
I have never dated never had a b/f never been kissed. are there many out there like myself??? I am 23, old according to a lot of ppl I've talked to to still be "single from birth" ...now I know I'm not the only one...Do you know where your lone life is?;)
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yep, me too. It sucks, and I'm lonely...
 
God has a plan! He just has his hand on us, he'll bring the right person at the right time!!
 
I am the same way...I think God is the right person, and he is always here...so focus on him and on his love...

Just tonight, I was at a young adult Bible study and saw some attractive girl...and then I was like shy for some reason...and stayed away from her...I am usually not shy at all...I don't know why I say this...but that nagging voice...Satan and his hordes...put into my mind "Your are worthless what are you doing hoping for someone holy?!?"

And when those thoughts attack...its like grrr...I have a saying "The Lord is Holy" that I say whenever I am attacked or upset...I say it basically all the time...out loud...so I know where my focus is or where it should be...

So when those thoughts accuse you that 'you are not good enough for somebody' or ''the Lord does not care for you that's why you are alone'--throw that trash straight back into the devil's face...and say I would rather be holy and suffer then have this world's treasures and be miserable believing your lies...

Thats what I do...

God bless and may he always be our love, our light, and our treasure
tony

ps...I guess this kind of prooves we are not alone...lol
 
Actually, I have been kissed...and I kind of had a gf...but it was all wierdlike and I do not know rather it counts....hmmm..just wanted to be honest...
 
thefightinglamb said:
I am the same way...I think God is the right person, and he is always here...so focus on him and on his love...

Just tonight, I was at a young adult Bible study and saw some attractive girl...and then I was like shy for some reason...and stayed away from her...I am usually not shy at all...I don't know why I say this...but that nagging voice...Satan and his hordes...put into my mind "Your are worthless what are you doing hoping for someone holy?!?"

And when those thoughts attack...its like grrr...I have a saying "The Lord is Holy" that I say whenever I am attacked or upset...I say it basically all the time...out loud...so I know where my focus is or where it should be...

So when those thoughts accuse you that 'you are not good enough for somebody' or ''the Lord does not care for you that's why you are alone'--throw that trash straight back into the devil's face...and say I would rather be holy and suffer then have this world's treasures and be miserable believing your lies...

Thats what I do...

God bless and may he always be our love, our light, and our treasure
tony

ps...I guess this kind of prooves we are not alone...lol
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Well said spanner!! Jolly good show old chap!
 
NO!!!...:p you were dating my dear Sam lol but we love you anyways!
 
Hi Sweet! I've dated, but I've never had a boyfriend. Dating can be entertaining, but unless you find someone really great, it's not all it's cracked up to be :)
 
well, i've been engaged... and i'd rather be single and lonely than dating someone and miserable.
 
Eek! NOT saying that dating someone makes you miserable lol... but if its not the right person for you, than it is.
 
chelsers said:
Hi Sweet! I've dated, but I've never had a boyfriend. Dating can be entertaining, but unless you find someone really great, it's not all it's cracked up to be :)
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Dating is no fun unless you plan on marrying that person... maybe that's a bit extreme for some people, but I've found it to be safe... and it helps you to enjoy your singleness more too ;)
 
yeah but how will you know who you do and dont wanna marry if you dont date people
 
Kenoragirl said:
Dating is no fun unless you plan on marrying that person... maybe that's a bit extreme for some people, but I've found it to be safe... and it helps you to enjoy your singleness more too ;)
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Yeah, when I date it's with the intention of getting to know someone for the purpose of marrying. You do have to get to know someone though and through dating you often find that, yeah, not so much :)
 
I think that being in the situation of being single from birth while can be a pain at times is a blessing. When Gioiod brings that guy into my lifem it will ve even more special!
 
sweet_eyes said:
I think that being in the situation of being single from birth while can be a pain at times is a blessing. When Gioiod brings that guy into my lifem it will ve even more special!
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And how can it be a blessing? I've never found the blessing part of it.
 
I've been single from birth, not by choice, and I'm even older than you if it makes you feel any better. lol I'll also probably still be single when you all are grandparents. :P
 
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