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Re: married men shouldn't initiate IMs with single women
My thoughts: a married man shouldn't initiate conversations with ladies, single or married, online.
The points expressed thus far are appropro.
In my case, I find single or divorced women PM'ing me.
I tell them up-front that I am married and won't flirt nor engage in sexual talk with them.
Some tried to "fish" and one woman, a divocee', asked me if I "played around."
No, of course not.
Again, she IM'd me, not me her.
Later, someone else told me that woman, a Christian, engaged in an online sexual affair with a guy friend of her's.
I find some people just wanna chat.
A never-married devout Christian woman in her 40s IM'd me the other day and she and I got into some conversation. She told me she hasn't really been in any relationships and is planning to wait until marriage. Again, I didn't ask her about her sexual status, she brought that up. That all came up after I asked her how she got to that age without getting married.
Communication can easily get out of hand.
Because of the obvious dangers, while I communicate with these people, I rarely initiate such conversations.
My thoughts: a married man shouldn't initiate conversations with ladies, single or married, online.
The points expressed thus far are appropro.
In my case, I find single or divorced women PM'ing me.
I tell them up-front that I am married and won't flirt nor engage in sexual talk with them.
Some tried to "fish" and one woman, a divocee', asked me if I "played around."
No, of course not.
Again, she IM'd me, not me her.
Later, someone else told me that woman, a Christian, engaged in an online sexual affair with a guy friend of her's.
I find some people just wanna chat.
A never-married devout Christian woman in her 40s IM'd me the other day and she and I got into some conversation. She told me she hasn't really been in any relationships and is planning to wait until marriage. Again, I didn't ask her about her sexual status, she brought that up. That all came up after I asked her how she got to that age without getting married.
Communication can easily get out of hand.
Because of the obvious dangers, while I communicate with these people, I rarely initiate such conversations.