In Love with Your Best (Opposite Gender) Friend?

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OutWrite Trouble
May 23, 2009
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Hey Everybody!

Have you ever, or are you, in love with your opposite gender best friend? If so, do you plan to marry them? Why or why not? Have any of you married your best friend (I know, this is the singles forum, but... maybe you know someone who married their best friend?) How did it turn out? I mean, if you're in love with your best friend, why not marry them, right? It seems like a no-brainer, but I'm guessing it's a little more complicated than that.

What do you all think?
 
May 4, 2009
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Hey Everybody!

Have you ever, or are you, in love with your opposite gender best friend? If so, do you plan to marry them? Why or why not? Have any of you married your best friend (I know, this is the singles forum, but... maybe you know someone who married their best friend?) How did it turn out? I mean, if you're in love with your best friend, why not marry them, right? It seems like a no-brainer, but I'm guessing it's a little more complicated than that.

What do you all think?

If I had a breast friend that's a girl. Then yeah, but I probably would wanna marry her.
 
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besides they apprently make the best and most stable couples...
 
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Jordan9

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Yes, well I think I might be...

... but she's got a boyfriend :/ haha
 
Jan 12, 2009
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Naw...not me...I tend to think of my friends as friends...and girls I would date as 2 different categories
 
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SamIam

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no, im not in love with my best friend, and no were not gonna be gettin married. However there are qualities in this person that are really attractive.
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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If I had a breast friend that's a girl. Then yeah, but I probably would wanna marry her.


*smiles*

Sweetheart, I'm trying to picture a guy walking up to a girl and saying, "You're my 'breast' friend..." :)

Let's hear it for typos!! I make them all the time, too, and I'm just teasing. Don't give up!


Chops--I have to agree with you. For some reason, the "categories" are "split" in my mind--I fell in love and he became my best friend, but I definitely had a romantic interest in him first.
 
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missy2shoes

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.......I'm working on it :p
 
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SamIam

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yes people she is!!!
 
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missy2shoes

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................we shall see ;)
 
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SamIam

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im predicting any day now she'll be in love with me........ aaaaaaaanny day now
 
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missy2shoes

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don't hold ya breath :p
 
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SamIam

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hahaha no?? you sure???
 
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missy2shoes

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positiveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :D
 
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SamIam

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awww come on now lol how you gonna do me like that
 
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missy2shoes

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easy....................................:p
 
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SamIam

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Im gonna go run off and cry now.............. but very manly tears hahahha
 
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christiancollegegirl

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yes, I'm in love with my best friend. I'd marry him, but I don't think God would approve, so I won't.