I'm a terrible christian I need friends to help me be good

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I get drunk I smoke I've had lots of sex with different men I cuss I get very angry at times, I fall out with friends and family I get into fights just not what you would expect a 100% christian girl to be. I love my god I really do and I believe in all his words and doings in the world and I believe he walks among us every day and second of our lives, I just have a really hard time following all the rules and I don't read the bible very often
 
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do you love god
 

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Joh 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

God does not want to condemn you, He wants to save you, i have had a pretty awful full of sin life aswell. i have basically broken all the ten commandments but when GOD saved me, and i decided to walk with HIM, be dilligent in reading HIs word, and praying, He removed my anger, He helped me with countless sins that i struggled with, and yet i am a work in Progress and when you give ALL YOUR HAVE AND ARE TO CHRIST right now and decide to live for HIM, He will do the very same for you, He will cleanse you of your sins, and wash them all out.

1Jn 1:7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.


1Jn 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.



JESUS can change you, and HE values you more than you think.
Heaven rejoices when you REPENT (Change your mind), and showing dilligence to follow HIM no matter WHAT.

GOD LOVES YOU
 

my_adonai_

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2Co 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
 

my_adonai_

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Joh 8:1 Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.
Joh 8:2 And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.
Joh 8:3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
Joh 8:4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
Joh 8:5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
Joh 8:6 This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
Joh 8:7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
Joh 8:8 And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground.
Joh 8:9 And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst.
Joh 8:10 When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
Joh 8:11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
Joh 8:12 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.


Joh_8:36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
 
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I want to walk with him but I'm scared of making the same mistakes. I want to be cleansed of all sin and walk with jesus
 
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Read His word it is the light, food and water for our souls. We all make mistakes God knows them all past, present, and future and loves us anyway thanks to the precious blood of Christ that He shed for our salvation. God wants the same things for you that you want for yourself step out in faith and trust Him.

God is able!
 
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wow great thread and good encouragement for all with this i know myself i struggle with being up or happy sometimes i have to listen to music to make me feel better or sing but yes we all make mistakes and can be terrible at times
 
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Me to I love music I use it a lot of the time to block out some of the guilt I feel but it dosent block for long
 
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goregeousgigi

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it's not about rules. and God loves this kind of heart: open and honest before Him.
 

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I want to walk with him but I'm scared of making the same mistakes. I want to be cleansed of all sin and walk with jesus
okay, if you become afraid of making mistakes you wont take a step forward sis, and i make mistakes a lot really, but God promises to tell me, and that i learn from them that the next time the same test comes i know where i went wrong and how to handle it.
so fear not we have an advocate of the FATHER JESUS CHRIST, that understands our sinful nature, and how we can mistakes sometimes, and When we walk with HIM, He will help overcome sin and even move to greater heights in Him.

look not at sin, But HE that conqoured sin, JESUS CHRIST the light of the world. but in the light of all this, you must believe and i tell you there is none other great, and wholesome for us to believe in.

GOD BLESS thee my precious sis.
 

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Me to I love music I use it a lot of the time to block out some of the guilt I feel but it dosent block for long
Sister, guilt can be removed only with confession and cleansing of the blood. nothing else, music makes us FEEL GOOD, but the sin still lies within, that sin is the guilt. but the blood of JESUS washes us of ALL sin then only would the guilt be REMOVED, and we will have PEACE to show that we are OKAY with the LORD.

the word of GOD says that
Eph 4:3 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
the word Endeavouring means continuance diligence, to keep the unity of the SPIRIT, to show WE ARE OKAY with the LORD, and the LORD has nothing against us but we are ONE with HIM, in the BOND OF PEACE, HIS PEACE is the feeling that shows that we GOOD with HIM.

And HIS PEACE is like none other, it is not root in self righteousness, neither in pride or rebellion, its rooted in humility to GOD, and knowing that WE have done what HE has said, and on this example is Confessing our sin and asking that HIS blood washes us of all sin. doing so in FAITH..

and as you continue to walk with HIM, you will learn more and more
God bless
 
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ive done alot worse than that. you are in the middle of your testimony. dont give up fight hard!
 

my_adonai_

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i started fornicating when i was about 5 or 6 years of age, from the age of 10 or 11 i started watching pornography, at the age of 17 i believe i started getting into relationships, i drank, i lied to my dad for money, i was disrespectful before them, i hated going to church, when i went there i would just lust on the women, i masturbate A LOT, more than you could imagine, i have hated people, lived in fear for many days and nights. i was starting to enter the drinking and partying era when the LORD just swooped me off my feet with and end days message, the day i received Him, A JOY unexplainable filled my heart, and on that very day i swore, and i just kept saying Forgive me Lord, forgive me LORD. i did still showed to continue in my past ways after i got saved, but GOD planted something in me that made me just listen to people who knew about CHRIST, so i continued to grow and grow and grow, saw the Word of GOD come to LIFE in my life, i put hands on the sick and they got healed, Heard the Lord talked to me, more than once, Spoke in Tongues, i preached and people got saved. but i showed diligence in bible reading, and i read it like crazy, yyou know, i could do other things for small minutes but i could spend over 3 hours just bible reading and reading and reading, GOD just gave me more and more joy in reading it. and the Revelations just fascinated me, you know. so i grew up leading people to Christ, counselling many and people Glorified GOD through me. and all this happened in the time span of 3 years.
and i tell you i have faced a lot of challenges, atheists, muslims etc. but they dont know what they missing, really, and the power of experience of how REAL GOD is and how ALIVE HE IS in our lives and in any ONE that wants to SEE HIM come to LIFE in their life is beyond ANY HUMAN DOCTRINE or DECEIT of the DEVIL.

JESUS LIVES, HE IS AT THE RIGHT HAND OF THE FATHER AS the BIBLE SAYS HE IS. and to DIE FOR HIM, i wont think twice.
HE HAS BEEN TOOO GOOD FOR ME, that even when i wrong HIM it HURTS yoh, not only conviction but i go to a point where i CRY you know, ALL HE did is LOVE ME, and yes i hate making mistakes but I TRUST THAT HE IS MIGHTY TO SAVE hallelujah.

Good day
 

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SO KNOW He that is WHOLE does not need a medic, but since we all have sinned, JESUS is our medic, and HE WILL HEAL ALL OUR DISEASE.
and this why HE did not come to condemn us, but to SAVE US, everyday as we WALK with HIM through BIBLE READING, and praying, HE heals every part of our past that was destroyed, stolen, broken by the evil one. so have faith HIM ok? there is NONE LIKE HIM
 
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wow my adonai cool testimony bro. i come from the same place sex and drug addiction depression ect. words cannot describe the secrets in the bible. about to get THE LORDS tattooed on my hand because i asked got for permission to get one then found a verse in isiah about writing that on your hand :) he gives me little presants all the time thru his word
 
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Hi there. Just would like to ask you if you have repented for all the sins you have done? Because Jesus always said Repent for the Kingdom of God is near. When i muck up i always repent straight away. Yes we are tempted everyday to sin. But the more we sin the more we give the devil a foothold. The bible says resist the devil and he will flee. It is not easy to enter Heaven as Jesus said to try your best to enter in the narrow gate because the road to life is hard and only a few that find it. I am not trying to scare you, but Hell is very real. If any man tempts you tell them that you want God in your life not them unless of course you are married. I would suggest you get on your face and fall to the ground and Repent seriously and turn from your ways. There is more christians going to Hell then Heaven. God said be Holy as He is Holy and without Holiness no man will see the Lord. We must try our very best to enter in the narrow way. Because Hell is forever. Fear God. Jesus said not to worry about those who kill the body and after that can do no more but rather fear Him who can destroy both body and soul in Hell. God bless you abundandly. Pray, pray and pray and fast if you have to. Go to church and talk about this to your pastors. They might be able to help you. But take this all to God in Prayer and ask Him to deliever you, for your soul depends on this.
 
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Hi there. Just would like to ask you if you have repented for all the sins you have done? Because Jesus always said Repent for the Kingdom of God is near. When i muck up i always repent straight away. Yes we are tempted everyday to sin. But the more we sin the more we give the devil a foothold. The bible says resist the devil and he will flee. It is not easy to enter Heaven as Jesus said to try your best to enter in the narrow gate because the road to life is hard and only a few that find it. I am not trying to scare you, but Hell is very real. If any man tempts you tell them that you want God in your life not them unless of course you are married. I would suggest you get on your face and fall to the ground and Repent seriously and turn from your ways. There is more christians going to Hell then Heaven. God said be Holy as He is Holy and without Holiness no man will see the Lord. We must try our very best to enter in the narrow way. Because Hell is forever. Fear God. Jesus said not to worry about those who kill the body and after that can do no more but rather fear Him who can destroy both body and soul in Hell. God bless you abundandly. Pray, pray and pray and fast if you have to. Go to church and talk about this to your pastors. They might be able to help you. But take this all to God in Prayer and ask Him to deliever you, for your soul depends on this.
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