Desperately in need of prayers for our family

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These last few weeks have been so hard. We had midterms, I have been sick and now the dr's think the bleeding I have may be in my stomach. Our son will turn one year on Friday (March 15, 2013) and he needs inguinal hernia surgery and early intervention. Our daughter may also need early intervention. My mom may have cancer and my dad they said had diabetes but he prayed every day and now they say he doesn't :] Which is really good. This however, I can handle, if I had my second support. The Lord is my support, but so is my husband and he has a lot of mental intability. He has left five times. the last time was Thursday, March 7, 2013. He has only visited our children once for 50 minutes since. He seems to nearly have two personalities and he told me before he hears negative things in his head that make him leave. He is saying he hates me and wants a divorce, but this has happened very similarly, only this time he seems more serious. He already has a new job and is planning a place to stay. I wish his new life involved myself and our children. He hinted in ways he still has feelings for me deep down and loves his kids. He said he wishes we still shared things like we once did and he said he doesn't believe what I am saying now but maybe one day. I could use the extra support and as many prayers as possible for God to help heal our marriage and family. To bring him back into our lives, my children and I. With so many important things coming up and I love him dearly, I want to be there for him. I want to one day help him find God and I had just recently found him a therapist, but he left before we had a chance to get him to one. Please I am asking anyone here to pray for my family to be together and my husband to accept his positive feelings for me and his children and to give us another chance. None of us seem happy and I need the Lord in my life to not only mend our marriage, but to bring harmony to it and get him the help he needs once we fix it. My name is Jolene and his is Joey. Our children are our daughter, age 2, and our son, soon to be one year old. We're very young, 22 and 23. If you can help us or simply if you read all of this thank you and God bless you.
 
I am not sure when our son's surgery is, but I will be sure to repost then too..
 
Verity1l1l said:
These last few weeks have been so hard. We had midterms, I have been sick and now the dr's think the bleeding I have may be in my stomach. Our son will turn one year on Friday (March 15, 2013) and he needs inguinal hernia surgery and early intervention. Our daughter may also need early intervention. My mom may have cancer and my dad they said had diabetes but he prayed every day and now they say he doesn't :] Which is really good. This however, I can handle, if I had my second support. The Lord is my support, but so is my husband and he has a lot of mental intability. He has left five times. the last time was Thursday, March 7, 2013. He has only visited our children once for 50 minutes since. He seems to nearly have two personalities and he told me before he hears negative things in his head that make him leave. He is saying he hates me and wants a divorce, but this has happened very similarly, only this time he seems more serious. He already has a new job and is planning a place to stay. I wish his new life involved myself and our children. He hinted in ways he still has feelings for me deep down and loves his kids. He said he wishes we still shared things like we once did and he said he doesn't believe what I am saying now but maybe one day. I could use the extra support and as many prayers as possible for God to help heal our marriage and family. To bring him back into our lives, my children and I. With so many important things coming up and I love him dearly, I want to be there for him. I want to one day help him find God and I had just recently found him a therapist, but he left before we had a chance to get him to one. Please I am asking anyone here to pray for my family to be together and my husband to accept his positive feelings for me and his children and to give us another chance. None of us seem happy and I need the Lord in my life to not only mend our marriage, but to bring harmony to it and get him the help he needs once we fix it. My name is Jolene and his is Joey. Our children are our daughter, age 2, and our son, soon to be one year old. We're very young, 22 and 23. If you can help us or simply if you read all of this thank you and God bless you.
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Hang in there! Draw near to God, through repentance and faith, let go of all negative thoughts and feelings, and seek the mercy of God, He is waiting patiently for His creation to humbly bow before His thrown in broken repentance, clearing your mind of all wrong thoughts and doings, then draw on the power of His word, and His power over sin, tmptation and the devil!

Jas 4:6 But He gives more grace. Therefore He says, God resists the proud, but He gives grace to the humble.
Jas 4:7 Therefore submit yourselves to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Jas 4:8 Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, sinners; and purify your hearts, double-minded ones.
Jas 4:9 Be afflicted, and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to heaviness.
Jas 4:10 Be humbled before the Lord, and He will lift you up.
 
@Tommy4Christ thank you so much for posting that because part of me thought being faithful meant being strong and I really have trouble with that right now. I trust God but it still hurts and please if you can pray for me I will return the favor in the future if necessary or in general now. Thank you so much. In fact I promise I will pray for everyone who prays for me by username or name. Thank you so much for replying to me. xo I really would love God to help renew my marriage with Joey and to help take care of our children and bring our family together in a way that keeps this from happening again by me getting my husband therapy and trying my best to help make him familiar with Christ and the Lord our Savior as well. Thank you for everything. xo
 
I nearly forgot honestly I need therapy as well but I am more worried about him right now.
 
FAther we come before you again in prayer. You know we are always before you as you know my heart is always prostrate before you. God you are one. You are the alpha and omega. You are our hope and salvation and righteousness and holiness. God you know I worship you in spirit and in truth as you have taught me. I offer my body to you as a living sacrifice. Because you purified me I offer myself to you purified and holy. God you know Jolene and Joey. You know every detail of their lives and every need they have. YOu fulfill all our needs. They need you. They need your power and live just as I need you. I beg you on behalf of my sister Jolene. Provide guidance to her heart and mind. Your word tells us to give thanks to you for all things and that if our minds are steadfast on you that we will live in your perfect peace. IF we pray with thanksgiving instead of worrying that we will have your peace which is beyound understanding. Guide my sister into prayer before you. Teach her to trust in you even as I trust in you for you are trustworthy. We know we can thank you in all things so I thank you for all of these difficult circumstances this family is facing. I trust your word that you will use all things for our good. YOu know we love you. You know our hearts belong to you. You said that the prayers of a righteous man are powerful and effective. God you are my righteousness. You are the only power that makes my prayers come into being. WE are your creation. WE praise you adn glorify your name in all circumstances. You are our joy and peace, Your word tells me that the non believing spouse is santified by the believing spouse. So I believe Joey is santified by your word throu Jolene's faith in you. Their children are holy even as you are holy because you have made them to be holy by your word. YOu are truth God. YOur word is truth. YOu are faithful. Your mercy is pure and your love and grace endure forever. guide my sisters mind and heart to be focused on things above where our Savior is seated at your right hand. There is no problem or need we have that is too big for you or too small. FAther see Jolene's humility. She has come asking for prayer because she knows you hear us. She knows your power is what she needs. You exhault the humble Father. Lift her up even as you have lifted me. We pray that your will be done. OUr trust and hope are completely in you and from you. IF it is your will you are able to heal all of these needs but all your actions are perfect. I trust you with my sister Jolene. I trust you for her salvation and the salvation of her husband and children. We allready have victory over death from you and in you. How much more then are we victorius in this life? You are for us, there is no power that is able to stand against us. Father put into Jolene's life exactly what you want in it. Take out of it exactly what you want out of it. Make her a beacon of your love in tis dark world. We thank you that you always hear us and always move and answer our prayers. We praise you and trust you. All blory and hoor are yours. Baruch ata Adoni Eloheinu. Blessed is the Lord our God.
 
joeyruready said:
FAther we come before you again in prayer. You know we are always before you as you know my heart is always prostrate before you. God you are one. You are the alpha and omega. You are our hope and salvation and righteousness and holiness. God you know I worship you in spirit and in truth as you have taught me. I offer my body to you as a living sacrifice. Because you purified me I offer myself to you purified and holy. God you know Jolene and Joey. You know every detail of their lives and every need they have. YOu fulfill all our needs. They need you. They need your power and live just as I need you. I beg you on behalf of my sister Jolene. Provide guidance to her heart and mind. Your word tells us to give thanks to you for all things and that if our minds are steadfast on you that we will live in your perfect peace. IF we pray with thanksgiving instead of worrying that we will have your peace which is beyound understanding. Guide my sister into prayer before you. Teach her to trust in you even as I trust in you for you are trustworthy. We know we can thank you in all things so I thank you for all of these difficult circumstances this family is facing. I trust your word that you will use all things for our good. YOu know we love you. You know our hearts belong to you. You said that the prayers of a righteous man are powerful and effective. God you are my righteousness. You are the only power that makes my prayers come into being. WE are your creation. WE praise you adn glorify your name in all circumstances. You are our joy and peace, Your word tells me that the non believing spouse is santified by the believing spouse. So I believe Joey is santified by your word throu Jolene's faith in you. Their children are holy even as you are holy because you have made them to be holy by your word. YOu are truth God. YOur word is truth. YOu are faithful. Your mercy is pure and your love and grace endure forever. guide my sisters mind and heart to be focused on things above where our Savior is seated at your right hand. There is no problem or need we have that is too big for you or too small. FAther see Jolene's humility. She has come asking for prayer because she knows you hear us. She knows your power is what she needs. You exhault the humble Father. Lift her up even as you have lifted me. We pray that your will be done. OUr trust and hope are completely in you and from you. IF it is your will you are able to heal all of these needs but all your actions are perfect. I trust you with my sister Jolene. I trust you for her salvation and the salvation of her husband and children. We allready have victory over death from you and in you. How much more then are we victorius in this life? You are for us, there is no power that is able to stand against us. Father put into Jolene's life exactly what you want in it. Take out of it exactly what you want out of it. Make her a beacon of your love in tis dark world. We thank you that you always hear us and always move and answer our prayers. We praise you and trust you. All blory and hoor are yours. Baruch ata Adoni Eloheinu. Blessed is the Lord our God.
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This is the most beautiful and amazing prayer. You touched my heart so deeply joeyruready and I seen this 5 minutes before Joey is coming for a visit. He will be here within the next couple of minutes so reading this came just in time I pray God hears my prayers and grants it to me. I want Joey to be saved because deep down he is a good man who has been done much wrong in his life. I think with time I can help him find God or my faith will save him. Thank you for your faith in God and thank you God for all the things I so often neglect and forget to thank you and be grateful for. You are my savior and I am lucky to have what I have had in my life in the first place.
 
My husband has agreed to consider counseling, but he's not sure. Please continue to pray for us if you can.
 
Verity, huge hugs, you do have alot happening right now, when my daughter was3 weeks old she had to have hernia surgury.
I was very nervous, but she diid just fine.
Her dad and I were a basket case, but soon recovered once we saw she was going to be ok.
Please do post when he has his surgury so all here can pray for him.
You, your husband, your marriage and children are in my daily prayers in Jesus as long as you need.
Your family also are in my prayers in Jesus's name.
My husband and I went through many, many, difficulties when we were young with children also, but Jesus was faithful and brought us through it all.
Not everything was perfect, but Jesus's faithfulness and love always is, and we never lacked in the streangth and comfort needed to get through all.
Looking back now, I do not remember the difficulties, but I do remember how great and perfect Jesus's love was and is in our lives.
Just keep looking to Jesus, He is faithful and loving always.
All is in my daily prayers in Jesus's name .

Welcome to cc. :)

God bless
pickles
 
BELIEVE AND LET THE PEACE OF GOD GUARD YOUR HEART AND MIND. CAST IT TO HIM, FOR HE IS ABLE.
 

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Praying in the name of jesus.......I got married quite young too hun and this situation your going through God is going to bring you out of it victoriously meditate on his word daily as you draw near to God he is going to draw near to you .......God said he will never leave you nor forsake you ,he also said he delights in our prayer so seek Jesus hun with all your heart......God bless and im definetely keeping u in my prayers
 
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