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Depends on the person.
To me to argue is a sport, its nothing personal.
But, I can't really be with someone who can't wrap their mind around conflict resolution not being a bad thing. I do not avoid conflict, and I wholehearted support seeking a resolution. I hold no grudges and I would consider myself a gracious person.
I do not fight. But, to be unable to achieve a resolution or to go through back and side channels to solve an issue between people is unacceptable.
To me to argue is a sport, its nothing personal.
But, I can't really be with someone who can't wrap their mind around conflict resolution not being a bad thing. I do not avoid conflict, and I wholehearted support seeking a resolution. I hold no grudges and I would consider myself a gracious person.
I do not fight. But, to be unable to achieve a resolution or to go through back and side channels to solve an issue between people is unacceptable.
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I'm too chilled out to get mad over something stupid so when someone tries to start an argument with me I just think it's amusing. Even if it's over something really serious I still tend not to take it seriously. It tends to tick people off but I really don't care, lol. I get into fights once in awhile but that's above argument level, it's always with a guy that's obnoxious and overstepping his boundaries. That's something I'm working on, sometimes I should just be walking away from those situations but I'm really territorial and I act before thinking.
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I don't like argumentative people who like to argue just for the sake of arguing. That being said, I'm quite fond of debates, as long as the people debating know it's just for fun and they don't get up in arms when someone disagrees with them. I can argue both sides to almost any topic (not that I believe both sides, but I can usually argue both).
It also depends on what the point of arguing is. If I am ever in a relationship/get married and we argue but we find that it's going nowhere, I think it's good to take a step back and cool off. But if it's playful debating then that could obviously go on for a while until we just shift to another topic.
It also depends on what the point of arguing is. If I am ever in a relationship/get married and we argue but we find that it's going nowhere, I think it's good to take a step back and cool off. But if it's playful debating then that could obviously go on for a while until we just shift to another topic.
What gets to me is when someone advertises that they're okay with confrontation but then avoids it. My ex did that all the time and it drives me up the wall!
Isaiah talks about us coming together to talk things out. Don't be a coward, just talk about what needs to be addressed and move on. It's uncomfortable and all that, but it's so much better to just be honest.
Oh! And I can't stand when someone martyrs themselves or guilts during an argument. It's such a selfish and childish thing to do. Be a grown up.
Isaiah talks about us coming together to talk things out. Don't be a coward, just talk about what needs to be addressed and move on. It's uncomfortable and all that, but it's so much better to just be honest.
Oh! And I can't stand when someone martyrs themselves or guilts during an argument. It's such a selfish and childish thing to do. Be a grown up.
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I'm too old to waste my time these days arguing with peeps. LOL With that said,once & awhile I will throw down with the best of them. You have to pick & choose yer' arguments wisely...in the end if it hasn't brought you or the other person closer together or strengthened yer' relationship with God,I suspect it's all vain nonsense & babbling.