who would you cuddle with?

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who would you could with?

  • I would only cuddle with someone i was in a committed relationship with

    Votes: 22 36.1%

  • I would cuddle with a friend of the opposite gender

    Votes: 13 21.3%

  • I would cuddle with a friend only of the same gender

    Votes: 2 3.3%

  • I am only going to cuddle with my future spouse

    Votes: 6 9.8%

  • I would cuddle with strangers

    Votes: 3 4.9%

  • I would cuddle with someone i was interested in romantically, even if i wasn't committed to them

    Votes: 5 8.2%

  • Ii would cuddle with you, truthie

    Votes: 2 3.3%

  • I want to cuddle with Jesus

    Votes: 8 13.1%
  • Total voters
    61
zeroturbulence said:
I tend to stay away from threads where people might be expressing their affection for other members because well...Ain't nobody got time fo dat! :D
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I need clarification. You don't have time for people to express affection for you or just for other people? I mean give it to me straight. If I'm going to have a broken heart, just let me know.:p
 
Chrissy77 said:
I need clarification. You don't have time for people to express affection for you or just for other people? I mean give it to me straight. If I'm going to have a broken heart, just let me know.:p
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If things get really bad Chrissy,I'll take you out for a happy meal & then you can go play in the bouncy ball room.
 
ijustwanttheTruth said:
not a fetish. this isn't dirty. physical touch is my love language and i don't get enough of it. i think i'm going to start something called cuddling communities. a place where people can just come together and get the physical affection hey need without anything foul attached. bc living without someone to hold sucks.
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I'd love to have suggles and more hugs. The real problem is that we most always connect non-sexual physical touch as something sexual when it really isn't. The thing is when girls want hugs and snuggles it's concidered normal, but when guys want huggles and snuggles with a girl(since it's not normal snuggle with a guy, and really it sounds very ackward to me too.), you're concidered a pervert. Basically it's lot harder for a guy to the physical touch he needs when he primary love langauge is physical touch. >_<

btw, someone already beat you to the cuddling community idea.
 
Chrissy77 said:
I need clarification. You don't have time for people to express affection for you or just for other people? I mean give it to me straight. If I'm going to have a broken heart, just let me know.:p
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I just stay away from those kinds of threads because i am overly-sensitive to things like seeing other people show affection for one another. The 'nobody's got time for that' part was just a joke. :p
 
zeroturbulence said:
I just stay away from those kinds of threads because i am overly-sensitive to things like seeing other people show affection for one another. The 'nobody's got time for that' part was just a joke. :p
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Tsk tsk. . But look at what you miss out on when you stay away.:D
 
zeroturbulence said:
Well I figured if I stayed away no one would think of me. :p Thank you for thinking of me, Chrissy! :D
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Lol OK in one breath it sounds as if you don't want to be thought of, then in another you thank me for thinking of you. Women are supposed to be the confusing ones. Am I supposed to think of you or not?:D
 
dothackzero said:
I'd love to have suggles and more hugs. The real problem is that we most always connect non-sexual physical touch as something sexual when it really isn't. The thing is when girls want hugs and snuggles it's concidered normal, but when guys want huggles and snuggles with a girl(since it's not normal snuggle with a guy, and really it sounds very ackward to me too.), you're concidered a pervert. Basically it's lot harder for a guy to the physical touch he needs when he primary love langauge is physical touch. >_<

btw, someone already beat you to the cuddling community idea.
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Dot, I don't consider a man to be a pervert because he wants to cuddle with me. If I am dating a man, it is an enjoyable way to end an evening by cuddling on the couch watching a movie before he goes home.
 
Chrissy77 said:
Lol OK in one breath it sounds as if you don't want to be thought of, then in another you thank me for thinking of you. Women are supposed to be the confusing ones. Am I supposed to think of you or not?:D
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I wasn't expecting anyone to think of me so when you did it felt extra special. :D I felt like that lonely kid in school that no one wanted to be friends with suddenly getting a valentine from one of the nicest girls in school. :D
 
zeroturbulence said:
I wasn't expecting anyone to think of me so when you did it felt extra special. :D I felt like that lonely kid in school that no one wanted to be friends with suddenly getting a valentine from one of the nicest girls in school. :D
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Hey I can relate to that. Being in a different school every year, wearing a skirt, having braces, having morales, and wearing glasses made me the most unpopular kid in school. People didn't care how nice I was. I was much more shy in school. I gained confidence only after my divorce, sad to say. Let me tell you, what you see here is what you get in real life with me but it is a facade. It is fake confidence. I'm still a sixteen year old afraid to approach the guy I like because he might think I'm not good enough.

How's that for honesty?
 
Chrissy77 said:
Hey I can relate to that. Being in a different school every year, wearing a skirt, having braces, having morales, and wearing glasses made me the most unpopular kid in school. People didn't care how nice I was. I was much more shy in school. I gained confidence only after my divorce, sad to say. Let me tell you, what you see here is what you get in real life with me but it is a facade. It is fake confidence. I'm still a sixteen year old afraid to approach the guy I like because he might think I'm not good enough.

How's that for honesty?
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I was absolutely hated in school. main reason why I left at 14
 
Who would I (I don't use the word cuddle I say snuggle) snuggle with? Well lets see. I have snuggled with my brothers. My sisters. I have snuggled with some of my best friends(all of them male and so am I). I have snuggled with many of my female friends. I have snuggled with homeless men and women and children. Mostly nowadays I snuggle with my dog. None of these snuggles were done in a bed. Most were on a couch or chair. Some were on concrete or pavement or even on the ground. I love giving physical comfort to others as well as receiving physical comfort from others. None of this is sexual or immoral in any way. Certainly different people have different levels of what they are comfortable with physically. I do consider snuggling to be physically intimate but intimacy should not be interpreted as sexual. The last person I snuggled with was Zack. He is my cousin's son. He is 12. I was watching a movie on tv he was playing a game on his phone. His head was in my lap and I was brushing his hair with my fingers. Oh I nearly forgot to mention, I snuggle with God. I used to suffer a lot of things in my life. It seemed pain was all I knew or felt. When I went to bed I would line pillows up on either side of me and imagine my body was snuggled into a tiny crack of a pinky finger of one of God's hands. Now I spend every moment of my life snuggled in this tiny crack of a pinky finger of God.(so to speak not literal of course) So ya I am a snuggler. Who would I snuggle with? anyone who asks any day any time. Same answer as who would I pray with? or who would I study scripture with? Anyone who asks, any day, any time. I am your servant in Christ. Joseph
 
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