This is how it works... the guy orders (and pays for) flowers and dinner from her favourite restaurant. Flowers are delivered to her around 7pm and dinner delivered at 7:30. You get on a zoom call (or similar) and have a nice meal together (start by saying grace of course). As a guy you can...
Depending on the underlying software you can sometimes merge two accounts. In that case the person creates a new account and admin merges the original and new account. May or may not be an option with this particular software.